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Cool, Rock On!

Thanks.
I wish I could express it better.

Trying to put in words.

The handful of times when a woman has recognized that, even when I'm just being "a regular guy" (so I think) and get treated like "one of the girls" or even being called...

I started trying on my mothers clothes around 8 or 9 years old out of curiosity there was nothing sexual about it.

As I got older and entering puberty I just thought women looked cool and...

I hit my teens just when the AIDS epidemic hit -- Rock Hudson got sick, people suffering and dying every day, when people did not even really know what was going on, and there was nothing but fear...

On a serious note, if you want to be accepted into the black community, just be yourself.
If you want to learn about the culture, be honest. Do not try to "act black". Just relax. If you have an...

I have a multi ethnic background and identify as black, but I've long wanted to have thick black asian textured hair, or the native american hair that some of my family have, that skipped me. But...

I've always had feminine mannerisms that I used to get in trouble for and I worked hard to stop. I grew up very self conscious in part because of that.

However, I never have been comfortable...

Tina B and Frederique make good points.

Gender roles seem to be just as and possibly more enforced then they may have been in the past. Just before I reached my teens it seemed as if "freedom" of...

Violet you are so pretty.

Barbara, I hear the Texas faire is one of the best.

I've been to Fair but never dressed. I was so overwhelmed by all the beautiful girls I dont know if I could manage...

As kid in the 70s, because of television (Barney Miller), the movies (Dressed to Kill and Tootsie) and The Encyclopedia Britanica, I thought that my cross dressing and gender issues were at best a...

I picked Ingrid because it is a strong yet feminine name. I also like it because it is germanic, my given name is german and I like german names but I did'nt want to sound like I was coming out of...

At this age it may be a game, he may grow out of it or he may grow into it.
The most important thing is that you and his mother love your grandchild for who he is. As he grows older and if he...

Like many of the posters here, I was brought up to be a man. I didnt feel much like one and I know that was a big reason they made sure I spent alot of time with male relatives and in "manly...

My ideal would be an agressive/dominant GG. Without the bsdm stuff.

Most of my LTRs have been with GGs with bi tendencies, unfortunatly they have not been self secure and since I wasnt either,...

I love jewelry especially rings. Ive always worn rings since I was little and got them out of the candy machine. Now I were between 1 and 4 silver bands at a time depending on circumstances (work...

I generally do well maintaining my long practiced public male persona. And not all of it is a performance, i like beer, football cars etc. And girls, just not like most guys do ;)

1. A whole lot...

I dont care if he is a CD or not really.
He is pushing gender boundaries and the world sees that he is beautifull and unafraid.
Go Johnnie Go

Johnny Weir is fierce!
And adorable too.

Thanks for the responses. It is not easy for me to talk about such things because it is so easily misunderstood. Unfortunatly such feelings are too often associated with bsdm and humiliation and...

I dont want this to sound like some wierdo post, so bear with me.

I have significant submissive drives, not into humiliation and licking boots kind of submission, but to be the passive or femme...

I think it is "easier" ie: more socialy acceptable to be Gay than a CD or Trans. 'Gays' (and I use the term losely) are much more out than the various forms of 'gender queer' folk are. And society...

I often wear the ying and yang symbol. It means something to me but most dont think much about it.

Usa

Between male and female, before crossing over. Im curious if any of you can share perspective on how far a male can feminize and still pass as a male especially at work.

Im sadly past growing my...