If you can envision a revelation that would benefit the family, then include instructions in a will to that effect. That could be awesome couldn't it?
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If you can envision a revelation that would benefit the family, then include instructions in a will to that effect. That could be awesome couldn't it?
I suggest being mindful about your thinking. Some reminders:
(1) Life is complicated, don't package crossdressing as one moral marble that falls under good or evil.
(2) Stay true to your...
I decided to read this as if you kept everything in your roomie's closet. Bold!
Wishing you the best in these trying times. Glad to hear the positives. So complicated when both your moral convictions are at odds.
lol -- wait that's not a proper response?
nicely put -- I am delighted by the idea that its the person, in the final estimation, that matters. Dressing can be a scaffold and can reveal aspects of that person, but... well, you said it.
Thanks for sharing your thoughts StaceyS.
Thanks for sharing, that was a beautiful exchange. And your affirmation of her, your honesty, and your offer was wonderful -- and must have been difficult!
Re: the original question. If crossdressing is holding you back from achieving something, I would point out that there is a difference between taking a break and purging. If, for example, you have to...
Or just tell her you're up for it again without giving a reason. Might not work for everyone, but some of us just say, we want to do it, just because. You can divulge more after you're more...
This is beautiful. Thank you.
This was a surprise for me when I started taking walks en femme.
Wise words. You have a chance to make a way for yourself, I hope!
If you are looking for a church that is more accepting, I'm sure this forum has suggestions.
Thank you so much for sharing. my best to you & your SO.
1 - It's a challenge, a proving point to show that you can evoke the reaction from others that you choose. (They think I'm a girl! or There's a show! or That person's a crossdresser)
2 - It's a...
You can figure this out! Among your internal voices, don't forget to exhume the voices of outsiders: society, parents, etc... and consider them carefully before reintegrating.
I wish you luck (and conscientiousness) in your journey. If you draw strength from dressing, I hope you turn it to healing and good in every part of your life -- friends, work, self, etc...
When I read your story, it sounds like you are "giving in" to crossdressing when you are telling yourself "just this little bit". Maybe you are feeling bad b/c your breaking a small rule inside...
- When I decide that there is something I want to focus on and that CDing will be a distraction.
- When I want to practice self-restraint for the purpose of improving self-control.
- In the past...
Here's a study on kids of crossdressing dads:
http://krex.k-state.edu/dspace/bitstream/2097/303/1/AllisonReisbig2007.pdf
Here is a web-visible version: View via google pdf viewer
On the most...
Sorry to be a voice out of nowhere, but this is an important consideration.
Dressed up just as a girl. Took a walk around the university area. Catcalled -- kinda unnerving b/c they were drunk and vulgar. Went home.
In the bottom of my closet, with a diary -- If I am discovered, I want my story to be there next to the clothing.