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I don't have an answer for Why. None of us do. My wife once asked me "if you could make this go away would you do it?" My answer was no. It brings something special to the party.

I enjoy this part...

I like the point Bea makes (the last sentence). I should have mentioned it in my post above:
Your son will need to experiment a bit with a number of things to see where CDing might fit in his life....

Deep breaths help.

I guess the first time I fully dressed and left the house was to a beauty salon to get a make over. It was my second visit (first was in drab). I didn't feel any stress in the...

I can only comment on wigs. I do wear them when I go out and wouldn't have it any other way. I do get used to them and don't find them particularly uncomfortable if they fit right.

I have two...

Sometimes it's just going into the bathroom, unzipping my pants, and feeling the panties. It's kind of an aww (big sigh), oh yea moment.

Hi Louise.

First off congratulations on being open and willing to embrace this side of your son.

Here is my opinion/experience (of course there will be a wide variety of opinions):

So, is...

I use a product called VeraCrypt. It's free. It will encrypt you data. No one can see anything without the password.

Hi Helen.

What's next? Good question. It's been quite a ride so far. I'm going to do a bit of a brain dump here. If this helps someone or you find this interesting, that would be great.

It's an...

I haven't posted anything lately. I thought I would give you an update on my recent outings.

First there was Halloween. What can I say. Maybe my favorite outing since I started going out about 4...

Hi Sara.

Like you I've been doing this all my life (since around five). I'm older considerably older than you and I also feel the need to get on with things. We never really know how much time we...

I guess I'm looking for where those two worlds intersect. What needs to happen in order for me to feel authentic and genuine about who I really am. What do I need to present to the world in order to...

I have in the past much more than today. For several years now I wear panties 24/7. It feels more authentic. If I look at a pair of panties and a pair of men's underwear, I know what I want to put...

Yea I've had several Rites of Passage:


I went into a local ladies clothing store. I was in drab and looking for a bouse that was on sale. Talked to an SA. Told her what I was looking for....

At around 5 years old. Neighbor threw out a pair of nylon stockings. I saw them and thought I needed to play with them. It was only a day or so before mom found them and tossed them. I had to wait...

Hi Candice.

I understand what you are saying about a wig.

When I learned about makeup, I went to a beauty salon and was taught by a makeup artist. This was done in two sessions, the first dealt...

The wife and I divorced for a 3 year period and then married each other again. In that 3 year gap we both had relationships with other people. I've shared this story with you before. The girl I was...

So no follow up? This was supposed to have happened a few days ago.

Is this real or just a flight of fantasy?

Interestingly, I've never purged. Never had that urge. If the mood goes away for whatever reason I just kept my stash somewhere. I've always come back to it at some point. I guess I've accepted that...

I find I have two modes to my dressing these days. I still have the fetish aspect (dressing in certain girly things is still a big turn on). Once I started going all the way (fully dressed and out...

I think sometimes the "hiding" can be more of an "I don't know what I don't know."

In my case I wish I could turn the clock back to when the wife and I got married. I wish I had the maturity,...

Hi Maria.

I know others have and will emphasize the need for communication.

Probably very important is to move forward slowly. Keep the communication open. This won't resolve itself quickly and...

Wow did you see some of the comments below the article. Yikes. It seems Eddie doesn't have that smooth of a ride.....

Hi Brandie.

Nice affirmations......

Doc, you just have too much fun with this.....

Someone on this site has used this term in reference to us a couple of times.

This got me thinking about how true this might be. I know in my own experience as I've gone out in public there does...