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I'm full time and I love it. So does my wife (she asked me to go full time). Male clothes are all gone. I changed my name legally to my fem name. I go to church every Sunday. No hormones, no...

Way to go, girlfriend! I went full-time over 10 years ago, and life has been so much better!!!! In particular, I love the way I look now--long hair, earrings in my pierced ears, and makeup every...

Please, ask!

Rikki

My wife and I go out with me dressed every day. We have gone all kinds of places--from dates to errands, dressy to casual.

Yesterday we got our hair done together. Our new hairdresser...

Over the years I have spotted lots of us (members of the transgender spectrum) out in public. As a member of that community, when I am spotted, I don't feel badly that I have been "read." Rather, I...

Sure, I used to waste a lot of time feeling guilty and ashamed about CDing. And then I had some time to think, recovering from a serious operation. I realized that my life was probably half over,...

My wife loves it. A couple of months before our wedding, she saw me dressed male for the first time, saw how unhappy and uncomfortable I was, and asked me never to dress male again. I was happy to...

Hi Tami,

Actually, I think that reaching a point of feeling "normal" when dressed is an accomplishment to be a bit proud of! After all, it proves that you really ARE a crossdresser--this isn't...

If you want to stop crossdressing, and you can stop it, I believe you should stop it.

Problem is, none of us know how to stop it. Oh, many of us have tried. We did something called "purging"...

I asked my wife to respond...

She writes...

I have only known you as Rikki......The one time I saw you as your other self I asked you to please make me a promise and not ever dress that way...

My father was fascinated with drag. His favorite wrestler was "Gorgeous George" who typically entered the ring in a long blond wig and a very femme robe.

But dad was also very conservative and...

I've been full time for the past ten yearrs. Have flown dressed (with male ID with femme picture) out of Los Angeles International several times, and out of San Francisco, San Jose, Seattle,...

Last night I was at Target, in the fitting room with my wife, trying on clothes. Suddenly, I hear a noise down at the ground. I look down to see a three-year-old boy's head poking (and peeking) in...

I wanted to respond to this thread earlier, since I've been dressing full-time as a woman for about 10 years. But I've had a busy day today. Anyway, I wanted to address two assumptions that many...

Sincere compliments are wonderful! I eat it up when I'm told things like, "I love your dress, where did you get it?" or "Your hair looks nice today." I've even received wolf whistles, perhaps the...

Dear Holly,

This feeling has happened to me, more than once. Caused by different reasons. Not to worry. Like others have said, the desire will probably return.

It may come back a little...

What you've all written is so true! About 15 years ago, I had my last urge to purge. (Fortunately, I didn't throw away anything!) What ended it was the realization that in some ways, I never was,...

Gen-dar is a funny thing. I've spotted my share over the years, such as...

the painfully shy girl whose shyness (she was hiding her face) gave her away,

the wildly inappropriately dressed girl...

My longest streak wearing panties every day is twelve years and getting longer every day.:D

Rikki

I dress full time. I have for over 10 years now, and I love it. For me, it just feels normal now--I get up in the morning, and shave and do my makeup. I get dressed (I try to balance pretty and...

Kay Honey,

If I had a penny for every time I've been made, I'd be a millionaire! I've been full time for over ten years, been told countless times (by long timers as well as newbies) how...

Boundaries are cool and necessary. Some observations to think about...

1. If a crossdresser feels guilty and ashamed of dressing, boundaries can help lift dressing up from the level of shame and...

In my mid-forties, when I had my angioplasty. Recovering from that, I had time on my hands, and got to thinking. Up until that time, I'd always been in a vicious cycle of dressing and purging, with...

I went 24/7 about ten years ago when I got my first job working as an openly transgendered woman. I love living this way and couldn't imagine going back to living as a man or trying to get back into...

Whip out your electric shaver and start shaving your face while waiting for the light to change, riding in a train, etc.

Blessings,
Rikki