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    I'm currently about a 6 or 7 wanting to go higher...

    I'm currently about a 6 or 7 wanting to go higher but my wife wants me to scale back to about a 3 so I don't think I'll be going much further any time soon.
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    Well, first of all, my boarding pass gave me...

    Well, first of all, my boarding pass gave me Pre-Check status though I didn't pay for it. That was a plus.

    I also just took my clear gel breast enhancers (A-cup) instead of my nude breast forms...
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    Thanks so much for all the tips. I can't fly...

    Thanks so much for all the tips.

    I can't fly en femme because my wife will be dropping me off and picking me up and that's not allowed. Besides, I'm still in the closet if I think anyone I know...
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    Getting through TSA airport security

    This has probably been answered here before, and while I have searched and found some discussions I've not found an answer phrased as I'm looking for it.

    So a week from Sunday I'm flying within...
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    I agree with Amy Lynn and Ginger/GenieGirl. The...

    I agree with Amy Lynn and Ginger/GenieGirl. The Raleigh/Cary area is a good place to live and very educated. While I've flirted with being en femme in public, I've never gone out fully dressed. But I...
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    Yes, this is a very interesting thread. I...

    Yes, this is a very interesting thread.

    I started having lucid dreams about 15-20 years ago and they've increased in frequency since then. But I've also been expressing my femme side more in that...
  7. Thread: At Work

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    Joan, you sound like kindred spirit. Has anyone...

    Joan, you sound like kindred spirit. Has anyone made any comments at work? How about at home?
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    Thanks for the explanation. I agree that...

    Thanks for the explanation. I agree that something might blow up, but as the optimist who fell off the skyscraper was heard to say as she passed the fifth floor on her way down: "OK so far!"
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    Wow, that sounds great. Unfortunately, I have...

    Wow, that sounds great.

    Unfortunately, I have no idea what it means. Could you please elaborate?

    Thanks,
    Valerie
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    Very interesting. What kind of reaction did you...

    Very interesting. What kind of reaction did you get when wearing a skirt? Were you also wearing women's shoes and possibly hose/tights?
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    :sigh::sigh::sigh: That's very kind, but as I...

    :sigh::sigh::sigh:

    That's very kind, but as I said I'm not sure what I'm doing is ultimately wise. The pink fog seems to be obscuring my reason and I fear that someday I'll come to regret it....
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    Well, about a year or so ago there was a...

    Well, about a year or so ago there was a pre-announced fire drill that I forgot about until the alarm sounded. I quickly shut my door and did my best Clark Kent. I was near the end of the people...
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    I'm not sure if my mom caused me to be...

    I'm not sure if my mom caused me to be transgendered or was just open and encouraging to what she saw in me.

    I remember, though, that when I was very young (no more than three) that I didn't want...
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    I'm very bold at work. Or very foolish, depending...

    I'm very bold at work. Or very foolish, depending on your point of view.

    I get up extremely early (like 4:30) and completely underdress. That means the following: panties, butt and hip pads,...
  15. So, Ginger, if I wanted to go out for the first...

    So, Ginger, if I wanted to go out for the first time en femme here in Cary or in the area, where would you suggest I go? Remember, I'm 6'3+" barefooted so I'm going to be noticed just about anywhere.
  16. I have bladder control issues as a result of a...

    I have bladder control issues as a result of a prostatectomy and have to wear a light pad every day. Not only do the feminine pads I wear fit better into panties, but that gives me a ready excuse for...
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    Halloween has good memories for me, too. I'm...

    Halloween has good memories for me, too.

    I'm not sure if my mom wanted me to be a girl or if she just recognized the tendencies in me, but at Halloween when I was 9 (1964) she dressed me up as you...
  18. Right now society sees me as male though I...

    Right now society sees me as male though I underdress daily and when I have time alone I'm me. But if society (and, more importantly, my wife) were OK with me presenting myself as either male or...
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    Brava, Ms. Julie! I'm so glad you've been able to...

    Brava, Ms. Julie! I'm so glad you've been able to find a solution that works for you. As you say, it's lifestyle change, but it's one that will benefit you for the rest of your life.
  20. I'm nearing 60 and I found what Stephanie...

    I'm nearing 60 and I found what Stephanie (sterusjon) said to be closest to my feelings:

    "My wife of nearly 46 years [30 years in my case], God bless her, and I have come to an accommodation in...
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    About 7 years ago after a bout with prostate...

    About 7 years ago after a bout with prostate cancer I found myself at almost 240 lbs. Though I was (am) over 6'3", I still had a noticeable paunch and couldn't fit into my size 14 wardrobe I had...
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    Pretty much every day, hot or cold, I wear...

    Pretty much every day, hot or cold, I wear panties, butt and hip pads, pantyhose, and a bra. Most days depending on my thin outer male layer I also wear breast forms. Someday someone will call me on...
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    My wife and I have sort of a "don't ask--don't...

    My wife and I have sort of a "don't ask--don't tell" situation going on. She knows I under-dress every day but she doesn't want to hear about it. She doesn't go into my closet at all any more. I try...
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    I started wearing a bra pretty much 24/7 about a...

    I started wearing a bra pretty much 24/7 about a year ago. I'm now wearing breast forms most of the time, too, both at home and at work. If anyone has noticed, they don't say anything. I do try to...
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    I stop shaving my legs because my wife complains...

    I stop shaving my legs because my wife complains if the hair on my legs is too short. And in North Carolina in the summer it's too hot to wear long pants on some days.
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