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I just started therapy 3 weeks ago with a female about my age. I've never gone to therapy before for anything. I can't believe how much I've opened up to her and learned so much about myself. She's...

Thanks! I freaking Love Zooey too. She is so funny in "New Girl".

Victoria Beckham! All the way.

Going to a weekly party in NYC tonight. Don't really know anyone there. Been once with a friend from the forum, but she can't make it tonight. Hope to have fun. Join me?

If you're talking about "Triangles", I'll see you there!

I think that androgeny is part of TG/TV/CD. I prefer androgenous appearances when not in total female mode. Popular clothing stores offer very andro/femme shapes in the men's section. I also wear a...

I think that you need to be honest with your SO, first and foremost. I, personally can see a positive in attending the party. If you are trying to get clear about your true desires and who you are,...

I have a lot of tattoos and wear them the same as a tattooed female would. Google Jeffree Starr. Tattooed tranny who always looks good.

I've thought quite a bit about this. I've always been so attracted to females. They are beautiful, sexy, confident...men never seem that way and sometimes I just want to be beautiful, sexy and...

Oh my gosh! Such a fun time. Went to a bar waiting for a cd.com friend (not sure if I should mention her name). Got a lot of positive attention. Then caught a cab down to a roof top club in the Meat...

I'm in a cab with a guy my age that is born and raised Brooklyn (borderline thug) and he is chatting more than any other cabby. I'm wearing a black mini-dress, fishnets, full makeup! Good start to a...

As far as mani/pedi's go, I feel like the stigma that most men have about coming across as femme is slowly fading. Mani/pedi's have become popular among upper class men to keep well-groomed....

Whatever you do, just enjoy yourself. Not sure where you live, but no one there will probably ever see you again. Just relax....and shop.

I hope this is helpful. When more mature members post about the worries of age, it helps the younger ones put it in perspective. I have a new friend who is a member here, that is a little (teeny-tiny...

I'm thinking that there is no better place and time than this!

I would definitly talk it over with your wife though. She was there and could give her opinion on whether the situation seemed the same to her. I know my wife has actually been pushing me to meet...

Yay (to it not being passed this year)

After some talks on other threads here, a good course of action would be to be fully aware of the purpose of telling her. Of course you would wait until you know her character better, but don't just...

I can understand that it's easy to get gender-identity and sexual orientation mixed up. Traditions are hard to shake! I found (with the help of talking with my wife) that my desire to dress as female...

I've (and many others here I'm sure) thought this way for a long time. It would be so much easier to just be "normal". What I try to remind myself about is that we (our community) more often than...

Melissa. I think that this post may need a little time to soak in. There are many girls here (my assumption) that would love if they could be out, but as you know, it's a very scary thing at first. I...

I am pretty lucky being that I live in New York (Brooklyn actually, which I love even more than Manhattan, but beside the point). There are so many girls here with lots of tattoos, as well as the...

I should have specified. I NEVER think you should keep anything from your SO. I feel like coming out to people that have no bearing on your happiness in how you present, can be self-serving.
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I know this is probably an easier-said-than-done sort of thing but, I think that as a community, we need to help blur and forget the gender binary by labeling things like big tattoos as un-fem. I'm...

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That one hit close to home. That's how I treated this years ago, and don't want to do the same thing again.