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Have a dress up sex date with him, on your suggestion. Explore it for yourself, what it's like to have your partner in various attire. Check out wearing men's clothes. Have fun. Once you open the...

I'm the same most of the time... jeans, femme tops with no make up, jewelry etc. It's a comfortable look that I wear to work. Sometimes a corset, and out of town, a bra. I don't stand out enough...

It seems to be well made and I have no problem cinching it up myself. The first time or two was a little tricky, but now it's simple and fast.

Hi Prene,
I notice the same thing with the swaying hips. It changes walking, sitting, bending, lifting, etc., and seems to ask the feminine to come play.

My waist is about a 30 normal... not totally sure. I wear it for about 3-4 hours, and cinch it tighter as the morning progresses. I get it to 26" by the end of the time. And each time, that 26"...

Starting last Saturday I've been wearing my corset for the first half of the day, everyday. I'm really enjoying the feeling of constriction, and I love the look of a 26" waist. I went out over the...

She likes it. She appreciates the softness it represents. She also likes the better care I put into my body and my dress. And our sex has become much more mutually fulfilling.

Of course it's better to withhold the truth. Keep it for yourself, in case sharing it ruins it. And honesty becomes misery, because we're usually happier living lies. It's something we're used to....

Most of my friends are accepting. People I know through work, I don't usually go there. It's not on the table as a level of interaction that is appropriate... too personal... somewhat irrevelevant....

Maybe I'm misreading this, but it sounds like you are blaming her for your feelings. Finally, that's not going to allow either one of you to be as happy as you could be.
One test I use on myself...

I started at age 40, about a year ago. After a month or two, got rid of all my male clothing. Still discovering where this is all going.

I suppose I would dress more exotically at first, and then things would flow into functional needs. I would definitely wear heels, skirts and dresses out... and blouses with flower patterns. Sounds...

Hope you make friends with the people you meet while dressed. Once you are seen and accepted this way, the tension between different clothing behavior can diminish.

I enjoyed the thoroughness of your post and questioning.

Generally, I regard sexual blackmail on parr with someone using food to extort what they want from another person. It's easy to see that...

No real boss and our business is family owned. My wife knows. I don't dress overtly femme (i.e. heels, skirts etc.), but I always where women's clothing (jeans, tops (sometimes with lace)). No one...

Wait, I thought only men exhibited such ludicrous behavior. Are you saying we're all human?

I find this inquiry fascinating. How it is that the feminine parts assert themselves, how the masculine parts can give them a turn. I have had fears of being overwhelmed in a way that maybe I...

I would add something, but the advice here is pretty complete... know thyself, communicate your boundaries (i.e. speak up and speak your truth), and let your love grow deeper. No matter what the...

If you're far enough along that you are wearing femme clothing in public, including dresses, etc., then up front from the beginning, polite, and confident.

If you're going to show up in public, and be associated with this woman at a dance, it is fair to avail her of any intentions you have to dress in the identity of the opposite sex. She can save...

Change leads to all experiences we desire but have never had. Change provides wealth dreamed of, and destinations now unknown.

The sexuality my wife and I share always seems to keep shifting into...

Some caution is warranted. And, yet, this is your life, your choices, and your consequences.
Having no idea what the consequences would be if you started wearing female clothing in public, it's...

I've gone to movies with friends (male) and my wife dressed up. Nothing with strangers.

Well, if crossdressing is "inner demons lite", that is to say, you have much nastier stuff inside, underneath the gender issues, then maybe talking about your clothing/gender identity issues would...

I'm pretty much in the same situation... I dress in women's clothing all the time, but it's pretty tame stuff. No one seems to care much. It works for me, at least for now.