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I posted a while back that I was thinking of coming out to my three closest friends - https://www.crossdressers.com/forums/showthread.php?284017-Coming-out-to-my-oldest-and-closest-friends&highlight=...

I often dream that I'm CD'd. I'm always feeling super confident and easily passing for fem (ah, if only!)
Usually I feel a pang of - maybe loss? - if I've woken and remember the dream.

It's great that you don't feel the "need" to be full-on male or full-on femme, and even better that you're wife's accepting.
I love hearing of situations like this.

For me it's the risk of being seen by someone I (we) know who's opinion we might care about.
I recently came to terms with exactly who I am, after spending most of my life feeling that my dressing...

A lot of AI written 'content' seems insightful, but (as a professional IT geek) I get that it's really, really good at pulling information from lots of sources while having no actual understanding of...

I think my head knows that if I had any interactions with the police while dressed then they'd behave professionally (in the UK). My heart however would definitely be pounding the first time!
Love...

Looking great! Just goes to show we can be as "out" (or in) as we want. I'm planning on coming out (at least a little) next month to some close friends - I hope it goes as well as this!

Thanks for all the opinions!
I'm lucky enough to still have all my hair, though now I've started growing it I can see it's a lot grayer than I'd thought! (When it's shaved to a #2 with clippers it's...

I'm relatively happy with my weight, body hair and most of the things that people have mentioned so far.
I'm a bit on the too-tall side but I can live with that... I think the one thing I'd like...

At the moment I'm dressing a couple of times a week, though just around the house, or with occasional walks around the neighbourhood (though covered up with a big coat!)
Does it count if I'm fully...

Early 20s, when I first moved in with my (then) girlfriend. She was size FF though so they fit so badly that I don't think it counted!
Despite dressing in other ways over the years, I didn't buy my...

So glad to hear the second visit went so well Joey!
Absolutely love to hear good outcomes like this, hope it makes you feel as brave for the next time.

I'll admit I'm intrigued! I've seen the ones made from ABS plastic and metal, but I've just seen some made from silicone. Does it need to be rigid, and so the silicone one would be useless?

First of all, thank you for all the replies! Definitely a lot to think about.

I guess I hadn't really seen it as a "ta da" moment, but on reflection that's exactly what it would have been....

It always surprises me - though it really shouldn't - when I encounter someone with right-leaning political opinions who actually shares some other beliefs/opinions with me.
We've all be trained...

Apologies for the long post!

The short version is: in April I'm planning on coming out to my best friends, and I'm wondering how this went for other people.

A bit of background - we all turn 50...

I'll admit I've dreamt about getting married as the bride. Or as one of the brides!
Maybe it's something to do as a vow-renewall thing when we're older; I know I'll never have a "proper" wedding...

I'll always be a MAID, I'll just never be pretty enough yo be any more than that! Though for me that's not a problem - I dress because I like how it feels. Yes, I like to look in the mirror and...

Absolutely stunning, Robyn!
Definitely what I'm aspiring to.

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Looks lovely Robin! I was originally thinking of a short-ish hair style, but I admit I'm jealous of your...

Thanks Helen!

I'm using the name Danni because I let my wife pick it! I'd originally picked a different name but it hadn't occurred to me that it was really similar to her best friend's name.
She said it'd feel...

Hi Cheryl
I wasn't so much thinking of growing it that long, just long enough so it could be styled in some way. I'd be up for a (relatively) fairly short cut if it could be styled to look fem... I...

Wigs. I love how they look, hate how they feel.
Do you ever get used to the feel of them on your head?

In the past I've only ever cared about how dressing up made me feel, rather than how I...

I've been getting the urge too!
But I daren't go out locally, and certainly not until I've learned to do some half decent makeup and decided what I'm doing about my hair! (I have a wig but I hate...

Sounds like a lovely evening - I do love to hot-tub too!
That hair colour looks lovely on you.