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Hi Santrana :)

Can I pick up first on your point about the rich woman sounding like Paris Hilton? This, if you like, proves the theory that a man in a dress cannot understand being a woman. This...

I feel most like a woman when my ovaries ache like mad and my uterus cramps and contracts each month because of periods and my blood loss makes me so tired that I get ratty. Added to that, breast...

We're all on a gender spectrum.

You can't equate gender with genetic sex, it's something else entirely.

Genetically, HC is a male and I'm female. But I'll bet I'm further along the male gender...

For me, the acceptance is how much of an issue you or your SO make of the cross dressing. It's like any other part of a relationship and often on these forums I see it being intertwined with other...

That didn't happen - that would be much too simple. :D

There was a thread in which CDs were talking about sleeping with other men. Some CDs said, "Eww" or "Icky" about their thoughts regarding...

That's a choice you make in your relationship and that's fine.

The issue here is that a CDer bragged about waiting until his wife was out of town to do the dirty on her.

It's not comparable to...

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I'm telling on you!!


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Yuperoonie - you tell 'em. ;)

Put it this way - I divorced for my ex's adultery (and I bloody well made sure that was the stated reason too), I'd never consider leaving someone over a pair of...

*Ahem*

I do not feel threatened at all. I haven't got a homophobic bone in my body, I was just as loud as some GGs who wanted to state on another thread that MOST CDs are straight men - and we...

I think that's what I meant - I'm not sure anymore! But we found a way around that - from now on, I'm nicking his PJs and we're having straight sex. I can't be doing with all this confusion...
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The only label anyone using this forum should be interested in is the one with the washing instructions for your bra!

;)

Ahhh, but you seee - it's not.

It's umm, well...

Yes, it's about sleeping with men, but only if they're dressed as women, which is fine because that you see, is CDing, and not being gay or bi...

Or better still...

If it's about writing erotic stories, is there not a writing forum? (I've not visited it myself so can't say whether this sort of thing fits, but at least visitors and...

Sorry to have to be the one to tell you... ;)

The Scots rarely wear kilts, a few wear them for extremely formal occassions, like weddings (when then usually only the groom would wear it). Even...

But this forum is open to CDers, their family and friends. If they visit here out of confusion and/or concern, then yeah - they'll believe it!





Some non-CDers are gay or bi. Some Cders...

Thank you for some common sense!

I've stayed away from this thread for good reason, HC has just brought your post to my attention.

OK, I'm an open minded woman who knows enough of people to...

Hi Cadon and welcome :)

I missed this post, don't know how, sorry.

I'm sure you're going to be fine in the relationship, there are no hard and set rules about how or when to develop a wardrobe,...

I do see where you're coming from, but the problem is that gender, biological sex and sexuality are presumed to overlap and all have something in common. It's not true.

With all of them, there are...

:)

If I know GGs, she's likely to be less embarrassed than you are and probably relish the idea of introducing you to make-up and how to dress!

Be certain before you say a word that she is the...

Kids are so much more accepting than adults, they simply haven't 'learned' yet what is normal and what isn't. Hiding from them that nothing is as it seems only means they get the shock later in life...

Matter of perception. I don't see stupid, I see brilliant and brave. :)

The only advice I could offer is on whether you have seriously considered being caught, is the risk worth it? If you lose...

You've been having the same conversations as us!

The thing is that I'm now worried about my own sexuality and the labels I need to apply. If I'm sleeping with a male lesbian then what am I? I...

Aww, I'm miles outside of Brum these days :( And possibly about to move even further away. Major shopping trips (as fun as it sounds) is way off the menu at the moment unless you like the idea of 3...

It's really not that complicated.

There is biological sex.
There is gender.
There is sexuality.


In a simple world, a male would be totally masculine and attracted to women. Women would be...

Aww, that's lovely! :) I'm loving the look you described on your 8yo's face, it's one I see a lot in this house, lol.

I wouldn't worry about them needing therapy because dad's a cross dresser,...