I've been dressing for a while. It's definitely gone through phases, and i'm certainly glad i don't have to completely hide it and stash things under drawers and in the back of closets.
That being...
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I've been dressing for a while. It's definitely gone through phases, and i'm certainly glad i don't have to completely hide it and stash things under drawers and in the back of closets.
That being...
I've realised that *that* is what i really need.
My wife, while totally cool with the whole frilly skirts and makeup and wigs thing, is not so much for the shopping, and i am not quite at the...
I feel like i should want to dress up more, that i'm somehow failing crossdresser-hood for having all this stuff and not being able to manage to use any of it, or shave my legs, or make any attempt...
Both. They're both more scary. I know i shouldn't be, but i'm pretty afraid of letting *anyone* into this part of my life. It took a lot just to be able to dress infront of my roommate.
not gonna lie, i'm lazy as hell. Most of the time i'm lucky to even paint my toes. :) I just need a magic wand or something.
I'm not sure if this happens to anyone else at all, or very often, but there will be nights when i just get so frustrated about the whole CD situation, and why can't i look as cute as she does, why...
To anonymous:
"I'm curious to know your thoughts on whether or not you know what it takes to be a woman."
Most likely, not any more than any of us know what it takes to 'be a man'. We're just...
Maybe it's a bit, or a lot, selfish, but this whole 'national coming out day' got me thinking... Do i even count as someone that 'comes out'?
I mean, i just want to be pretty sometimes. I know i'm...
Mostly my fear of 'outing' myself even more than i already have. i have come to realize it's probably more my own feelings of being weird or freakish more than anything anyone else would think of me,...
the situation is, my SO has nearly no interest in traditionally thought of as girly things. she hardly ever wears anything but pants and mostly plain shirts, rarely uses makeup or perfume, owns only...
Just a thought i had tonight... What is there really to gain by being 'out' (to the world, not just to your spouse/SO) if you're just a crossdresser with no intention of making any long-term or...
apologies if this is not on topic or whatever, but i had a long talk with my fiancee (who has previously known about my dressing) about some soul searching and feelings that have come up after a...
I really should learn to stay away from the internet when i'm bummed out. :) i appreciate all the responses. I was particularly down on myself last night because i have absolutely horrendous...
a little background to start: my SO and i are possibly the two most oddly matched people i know. Often she's more stereotypical male, and i'm more stereotypical female. This is all well and good, and...
If we're being completely unrealistic here, if there were some technological or supernatural means of switching back and forth, i'd say that there is almost a 100% chance that i'd put in some heavy...
acceptance is great, and I do feel lucky, but sometime I wish I wasn't more "girly" than her. who am I supposed to get all my makeup and fashion tips from???
Definitely don't make any important life changes on a whim. You said you'd been lurking the site for a few years, and that's good, but sometimes i think forums can have two negative effects.
The...
When you're lying to your wife, ditching work, and driving three hours both ways, there's likely a problem. Hate to spoil the party, but this is something you probably need to hear.
honestly the wedding dress thing kind of doesn't do it for me as much as say, a fancy fancy evening gown or poofy ball gown and all the accessories :)
Also, i've always thought it would be fun to...
i totally relate to this topic.
I look absolutely horrid when i dress up, even in cute things. I will literally never look even remotely like a female, despite how bad i may want to. Still there...
Nope, no partner. The fun is kind of taken away when i get ashamed or feel like i'm doing wrong just because i'd rather be girly sometimes. I haven't yet figured out how to get over that
I feel so silly even to feel the way i do about wanting to dress or wanting to wear makeup. I'm 26! certainly such sillyness should be behind me, yes?
got any words of wisdom?