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I feel you. It's not quite that tight here but pretty close. Mostly my immediate neighbors are highly religious and very gossipy (old ladies) it makes it a little tough. Where we live isn't quite...

Could have been a drag queen. Lots of gay men wear lipstick and carry purses while not being real CDers. You may have also seen a CDer pushing their own limits wearing the items that they are...

This is probably the hundredth thread on this topic for me. I hope this one will be different. I am fully out now to my SO she knows every deep secret that I possess. We went out last night i was...

They taught me what I should be. It's hard to break indoctrination on any level.

This is beautiful. But with my family it will likely go astray. I suppose I will just be brutal with it.

I have recently felt a greater urge to expand my crossdressing. My wife said I should come out to my family and get it over with. The problem is that I have barely come out to any of my friends. I...

Being in IT I know what is generally safe. I connect to a home computer with a remote desktop session. No actual data is transmitted simply a picture of your home computer. This prevents anyone...

Recently I have found that I have had a rough time dealing with both male and female roles in my life. Sometimes I am purely male and I never even think about dressing. The rest of the time I am...

When I was younger I got a sexual thrill from dressing. I think it had to do with going against the norm. Now it is less about sex and more about feeling relaxed almost at home when I dress. I'm...

I find myself always saying yes though sometimes i wish i could say no. while it would be a wonderful thing if all of us that feel this way could just openly and honestly say yes. The unfortunate...

A wise idea but I have my left ear pierced an I really want to do the right. Thinking of hitting up HR for a pass they owe me at least one. How many have their naval pierced? It is something I...

I saw a couple of posts mentioning ear piercing what do you do in a place where earrings are forbidden for men? I am honestly curious for ideas as my workplace only allows a single pair of earrings...

I think that perhaps we all feel lonely sometimes. Some of us have more support than others and all the while the loneliness remains. Our lifestyle tends to lead to some measure of loneliness...

So many amazing replies to this thread that I can't respond to any one. I will admit that a large part of my concern is because I live in a townhome and there is a very real possibility that the...

For those that go out dressed. Where do you find the courage? I have been out twice dressed and both times were halloween. I am even afraid to go dressed for halloween again because I am afraid...

My goal may be a stupid one. The one thing I strive to experience is to fully accept myself sober. I am fully able to accept myself while I have been drinking but my mood varies significantly when...

Sorry if this is the downer post but how do you manage the courage to go out for halloween perhaps more than once as a female? I have been out twice many years apart and I find it terribly difficult...

I am not saying this is the situation but as CDers in my experience we tend to assume that people are reading more into us than is true. It may be that some of your coworkers read you but in all...

I am at a progressively growing stage with my wife. This stage has gone on for several years which I am absolutely ok with. My Wife is aware of my posting here and has recently expressed concern...

Just passed 31 and I feel awful. Not a health thing but those creeping gray hairs just make me feel old.

Bienvenu, Of all of your post the word healthy stands out and I want to thank you for it. Often even when reading posts on this site I am concerned about the health of my mind. I can relate to much...

Thank you, Beautifully said. I do not have children so that is not part of my stress thankfully. I have often personally referred to Delila as my alter ego. Twins may perhaps be a better...

Thank you. It is a great comfort to know that I am not the only one that needs to find a balance. I have long thought that gender identity is either male or female. It is only recently that I have...

My wife has noticed many men with shaved legs at the gym. She only noticed because she was curious since I shave my legs if other men do it. I also started shaving my arms months ago and nobody has...

I have had lucid dreams since I was a child. They are rarely pleasant though there has been the occasional dream where I was a woman. I could be entirely wrong but such a thing once turned on may...