Hope I'm not too late on the draw with this one ;)
When I was with my ex, it took me 4 years to tell her "the secret". Most of it, was me trying to figure out why I had the thoughts I was having....
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Hope I'm not too late on the draw with this one ;)
When I was with my ex, it took me 4 years to tell her "the secret". Most of it, was me trying to figure out why I had the thoughts I was having....
I've not been out, but read my signature, and you might understand why.
Guilty as charged. Love the legs!
Ah, yes... that whole paradox... Well here's what I'll do since I don't know the full story/extent. How about I list a few things that may help.
1. Second thoughts - This happens... and we're all...
It is definitely an interesting sensation to hear those words come from your own self. I also said it to my ex, and my therapist. It's kind of an... odd relief...
For me, being immediatly called gay just because I crossdress is actually very disheartening to me, and it does hurt. It's kind of like being called a jock just because I played a sport, or being...
Great idea!
I'm thankful for the.. well, all of it. Especially the fact that I can freely express myself without worry, disgust, and all that nastiness that I felt before accepting myself.
I started fantasizing when I was 10, and then moved on to stealing a dress my cousin had when I was 14. Then, my other cousin moved out after a summer stay, and I snatched a brand new bra that she...
Today! My mom and I were shopping and we were in the Halloween section and I pointed out a little kids' princess dress and said, "I found my costume." She laughed and replied, "I can't see it", but...
I've finally settled my mind down, and have found a good chunk of answers. I took Satrana's advice and found out that the egg came first, not the chicken. In other words, I found that Sally had been...
Bathroom. After nabbing my cousin's brand new bra after she moved out.
I'm finding it quite humerous that so many have strayed away from helping me, to just insulting my therapist. So what if your parents were nice and that doesn't explain why you dress, that's you, and...
Yes, that's exactly the question that's going through my head right now. And, if it's true, am I going to hate myself and my parents every time I get the urge to dress...?
Umm.. ya, she would...
I was in therapy today, and my counselor had brought up Sally. A bit shocking, she normally doesn't. But, she had a theory... it's one that I've thought of in the past, but she had done a lot more...
I'm not partial to names to begin with, but, "Sally" holds sentimental value to me, and it also addresses that I am, in fact, a CDer. I wouldn't care at all if no one mentioned my other name, I just...
Personally, I haven't even started enough to quit. But, when I do, I know I never will. I will fight to keep what I have.
I do think that there are those that are able to quit. Ya, it's a rough...
I just don't care about my male clothing. It's just on me, like some sort of rag or something. Don't fully hate it, but don't fully like it. It just sort of... is..
Before my GF and I got fully back together, I had told her that I had a secret in my life that I needed to share with her. Took me 2 days to get the courage up. I wasn't even visiting forums, or...
Agreed. But, before you jump into seeing a professional, you could possibly try solving it on your own. Since you have already addressed the issue to yourself, you can now identify and stop the...
Well, it's not about sex, it's about respect.. Because of CD "admirers", there are those nasty sites out there that cater to them. And, of course, reflects back down to us, and when the general...
Omg.. what a jerk off.. If he don't like it, he can turn the other cheek and be a real American.
Ya, I may like to dress as a ballerina, but as far a wiki's term, and my knowledge of karate goes,...
Age 1-5: Not much to do with cding, but did rather play differently than most boys
Age 6: Sister put lipstick on me. Didn't think much of it.
Age 10: Make-believe game with my cousin gets me...
I have a GF/SO that knows and accepts. She hasn't seen me yet because I do not own anything (complicated story), but she does think it will be a fun experience for both of us to share.
For so many reasons, lol. Mainly to feel like a comfortable woman.
I have to agree with Violet. I mean, I used to be fetishy with my CDing (still kinda am). Now that I've come out to my GF, and am more accepting to my CDing. Granted I also don't want to see another...