Kim, I've followed your traveling exploits for quite a while and has always felt you were eminently passable. I know we are always hardest on ourselves but try to give yourself a break.
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Kim, I've followed your traveling exploits for quite a while and has always felt you were eminently passable. I know we are always hardest on ourselves but try to give yourself a break.
If you wear a uniform then there is obviously a dress code so the question is does the dress code or uniform standard say anything about what is worn underneath. If not, I don't think you need worry...
What's this human fascination with labels? I hate labels because they serve to identify our differences. Of course as individuals we are all different but as a race we are all the same and should be...
As an crossdresser / mildly transgender person who is out only to his wife, I find it difficult to support myself and others in open settings. For example, I have recently noticed that some new...
Just Like a Woman. The best movie I have seen, perhaps the only movie I have ever seen that has a heterosexual crossdresser as the main character.
Great thread Tink. Like others, these types of topics are why I come here, some thought provoking discussion. Many have said it already, that we all, men and women alike, have some basic need of...
I was 8. Tried on my sisters old majorette uniform. I loved everything about it and still remember it vividly after 47 years.
Have been dressing up ever since.
Earlier in life I beat myself up over it, a LOT. But since the internet, the availability of much more information, and especially this forum, I have dropped
most of the analysis and just try my...
One of my favorites is taaz.com since it allows you to try different hairstyles as well.
I never could grow a respectable beard but I had a moustache from 17 to about 42. Just shaved it off in the shower one day and almost gave my family heart failure. Wife and kids had never seen me...
Well, its not binary but it is still too rigid. I agree that there is a whole spectrum of individuals in between
these categories that Harry just tried to lump into bins.
Rogina
You don't have to trawl the web. Look up the National Transgender Discrimination Survey. Lots of interesting statistics regarding how we are treated as a class of people. The numbers are...
Used to feel guilty, like I was doing something wrong. I gave that up years ago. Now I just feel happy, content, relaxed.
Isha:
I know what you are getting at. I feel the same way. In fact I sometimes get depressed when I look in the mirror and see an old lady but don't mind my older male self. I think it is because...
Sara...I've had the same thing happen to me. Another one is your search history and the way google pulls up past search phrases. Could be trouble if someone else does a search on your computer and...
Christen...It is definitely not just you. I have been feeling exactly the same way for some time now.
I have accepted that this is part of me after many years of struggling but that was back in...
I always hope for some small token but her acceptance hasn't gotten to that point. I don't
really mind except for the mild depression right after the holiday. Maybe some day...
Desirae
I agree with Happilymarriedguy, I think you are more normal than you realize. Most on this forum
either have been or are where you say you are now. Yes, some get to the point where the...
Hi Jackielynn...I was married 26 years when I finally accepted myself and then told my wife.
She loves me and accepts me, but doesn't like tHe dressing part...but again accepts that it
Is part of...
Leanne
I don't think there really is an easy way. It will probably be a shock unless she had some reason to suspect. Anyway, from my experience and what I have read of others, it isn't so much...
Jon:
Thanks for the reply. We occasionally do the clothes review and I have always wanted here to offer me something which she never has. I think that is why I had to shere this story. After 4...
I think you should just walk up to him and politely ask if there
Is something you can do to help him. Put the ball in his court. Then
If he gives you a reason, then go to customer service and file...
I agree Beverley, all in good time. :-)
I'd like the freedom of feeling like I could go anywhere I wanted, wherever the wind takes me!
Mrs Perry:
My story is similar to Ina in that I was married for 26 years before I told her of my lifelong obsession. After a few weeks of talking and questions, and several marriage counselor...