Sigh ... being human is hard.
Go to a crowded shopping mall, or a sporting event, an airport or a subway station. Look around you and realize that between the ears of every single person in...
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Sigh ... being human is hard.
Go to a crowded shopping mall, or a sporting event, an airport or a subway station. Look around you and realize that between the ears of every single person in...
This is a very good pamphlet - "Coping with Crossdressing" by Joanne Roberts
https://www.digitaltransgenderarchive.net/downloads/9z902z86w
Good reading for both of you. Yes it is biased towards...
Nicole, you have my sympathy. It's not easy to be honest with the person you love. If you do love your wife, show her. Profusely, and without end. Be painfully honest. Tell everything, and leave no...
Oh my gawd, what an amazing and beautiful day that was, Mandy! There were so many firsts for me, I feel like I could write a book!
There is something so special about finding a friend that you...
Well, then case closed! All these years, and I never realized all I had to do was to choose not to be this way. My god, how could I have missed such an obvious solution! Truly this woman is a genius!...
Ding ding ding!
For me, that's definitely true. Sexual stuff in relation to my gender stuff hasn't really been an issue since puberty passed, but a certain element of narcissism remains. What I mean...
All I can say is buckle up. The rollercoaster has only just left the gate.
My experience of coming out to my wife (17 years in, 19 next week) has been that theres a turbulence to it ... initially...
I shut right the hell up
:rofl:
It's probably more of a tell than if I'd just keep up with the conversation, but yeah. That's a chill right through my soul when that stuff comes up. It's a bit...
For me, I wouldn't say "substitute" ... I'd rather describe it as "distraction". The desire is always there, accompanied by that relentless nagging unrest. That feeling of hiding behind an...
Echoing sometimes_miss, I have to say that those are two equally awful options, LOL.
If I could have girl parts, but had to present boy all the time, that lands me in the exact inverse of the...
There are some simply amazing finds in this archive!
For instance Coping With Crossdressing - tools and strategies for couples in committed relationships (4th edition) ... this pamphlet should be a...
This is amazing. Thank you!
Wow! You too?!
While I'd been dealing with my gender issues my whole life, I didn't really come to accept myself for who I really was until I was recovering from cancer (pancreatic). 7 years ago in...
Well, I'd say she actually IS living with it without any problem. She doesn't seem to mind at all!
The guilt is all in my mind, so far anyhow.
Because of where we live, and especially the dark...
My daughter caught a glimpse of Amy a little over a year ago when she was 15. That forced my hand, rather than concoct some sort of lie, I just decided to sit her down and come clean. If my hand had...
Boob Sweat.
Specifically sweat that makes your boobs fall off :-)
It probably wont be the last time. Sure, you feel awful about everything now, and you probably feel like its just a matter of determination and willpower and that if you just try hard enough you can...
Echoing what Stephanie said, I too cannot really remember a time in my life where I didn't struggle with the disconnect of who I innately felt myself to be, and who everyone else so clearly thought I...
Yeah, have been there.
Everyone always says "don't purge", but honestly I think I had to go through that once or twice to really wrap my head around it. I had to really know that this was...
Too damn close to home. Good movie, but I guess I just identified with it too much.
Watching it, filled me woth dread and sadness and paranoia ... in the end I just turned it off about half way...
Me too! At the end of the day, I just am who I am on the inside. I suppose it's a mix of stereotypically male and female attributes. I feel much happier, more at ease, and more natural expressing the...
I'm tired, but I am not ashamed.
It took me like 30 years of day to day struggle to untangle the mess of denial and shame and mental spaghetti from growing up in a hostile and unaccepting...
When you're in your mid 40's this is a thing that happens to nearly everyone.
I don't doubt that dealing with a gender variant spouse adds to the mix of conflicting motivations ... and I mean ... I...
So aaah ... what was your method?
I'm curious
Hey now, the guy hacked her email, read all her private stuff then told everyone he knew ... and she had to find out through someone else. He only apologized after he was busted. If it was me, his...