Sorry I missed this earlier. I hope I'm not too late. I retired as Lt. Col (O-5) from the USAF. I am always pleased to see so many other veterans on the forum. It doesn't matter what your...
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Sorry I missed this earlier. I hope I'm not too late. I retired as Lt. Col (O-5) from the USAF. I am always pleased to see so many other veterans on the forum. It doesn't matter what your...
I am 57, and distinctly remember the invention of dirt.
Don't worry. The TSA is looking for contraband items, which does not include women's clothes. I travel constantly and always have femme stuff with me. You might feel more comfortable checking your...
My best suggestion. It can make all the difference.
Jaydee
I agree with the other responses. It is important to find someone who understands the in and outs of TG and CDing. I have seen a therapist about four times over the last year. As a vanilla Hetero...
I have always gone to the doctors in full drab, but for the last 18 months my legs have been shaved. For the last couple visits, my nails have been buffed to a high shine, but no color. So far no...
Lex,
I live closer to Tacoma and do not go out enfemme. If you are thinking of the urban areas of Seattle, the area of Capital Hill is widely known as popular with the LGBT community. I have...
Dawnmarie,
I hadn't though about it but many of them probably thought that boys had life a lot easier. I guess the grass really is greener...
Jaydee
Dawnmarie,
What a touching story. While I don't remember wishing on a star, like Katie, I was jealous of the girls, and wished I could be more like them. Keep dreaming the stars are a long way...
Granted I have light hair to begin with, but I started shaving my legs about 18 months ago. I wore shorts all summer, and spend time in a gym. No one, including my wife has noticed. If anyone...
Technically, the first item that started me off into the CDing world were tights (US type). I was taking ski lessons at age 10. My mom gave me a pair of tights from a friend's daughter to keep my...
Growing up, there were almost no boys in my neighborhood. One of the things the girls loved playing was "Mystery Date". I played that game more times than I could count.
Jaydee
Jess,
I remember reading your thread about coming out to her. I was glad that it seemed to be going great and I was keeping my fingers crossed for you. You are not the first CDer to have their...
Before I came out to my wife, I was at home dressed one day. My wife was out for the day at a volunteer job. I was confident because she always called when she left and it took an hour to get home....
I hope its not to late to jump in. I started at age 10, am will be 58 in a few months, so that will be 48 years. Was deep in the closet until 18 months ago. Still only out partly to my wife.
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I guess my situation is a 2.5. I had been deeply closeted all my life. I finally told her about 18 months ago, after 34 years of marriage. I finally got the courage after all the support I got...
Sherlynmke,
I agree with many of the posters. Listen to your wife, and be empathetic (or at least try). We have been married for 35 years. My wife and I have always been very open about...
This says it for me. The options of "lifestyle" or "hobby", makes dressing sound like a casual option. I am not TS, but it is more part of me than something so casual. It is a way for me to...
Zoe,
Congratulations. I think you handled it well. I only hope that some day I will be able to show my wife my purchases, and have her be accepting. Good Luck.
Jaydee
It may not be a popular sentiment here, but I think that finding a way to stop, especially if CDing is causing other problems in your life is a worthy goal. It takes determination and courage and...
"My invisible friend made me do it", (no, my mom didn't buy that one either). How 'bout because it makes me feel good, calm and whole.
Jaydee
Christy,
I have been following this thread since the original posting. I am so proud of you. I often shop at Ross stores around the Puget Sound, in drab. Your experience would have been my...
Emma,
I often work in the woods. In the winter it is quite cold and a couple years ago, I started openly wearing opaque tights under my work pants. At that time I had not come out to my wife. She...
At age 10 I was going to be taking ski lessons. My mom obtained a pair of black tights from a friend's daughter. I didn't like the idea at first, but soon loved them. A couple years later I found...
USAF active duty and reserve, 25 years
Pilot, various locations
"Fly, Fight, Win!"
Jaydee