While my wife knows of and accepts that I dress in women's clothing the trade off is that it is done on my own private time and not to be seen by her. It's amicable.
Given this arrangement I...
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While my wife knows of and accepts that I dress in women's clothing the trade off is that it is done on my own private time and not to be seen by her. It's amicable.
Given this arrangement I...
I don't look nor act feminine while dressed nor do I try. Truly a fellow who just wants to wear what he wants to wear at least his own private world.
Dressing has evolved very much into a hobby...
A male task performance bonus? Maybe you could call it a Commission for Doing Male Essentials or C.D.M.E.?
The process you are sharing with your wife on giving you open living "to be you" is a wonderful read, Julie. Happy that she is all for trying it and that includes open communication for reactions...
I feel this is very well explained here.
In particular it feels that #3 the most challenging aspect of considering counselling. What we "find" has the potential to change our world of thinking...
That's a great albeit disappointing experience you had! Even the fact that many of my female cousins who were slightly older wore some pretty Christmas dresses come Christmas Day dinner and that...
From many threads I've gleaned and adopted the belief that the world wouldn't end if somebody ever did find out that I dressed (my wife has known since very early on.) Still, after so many years and...
Hi Marihanne...
Like yourself and so many others here I sought these same answers of myself for many years although without the help of the internet or therapy; just had to figure it out. ...
Hi Samantha...
I've seen a few men - maybe a couple dozen in the last 2-3 years - in the trades professions wearing nail polish, almost always black. Seems like a personal statement that nobody...
A great question, char.
Personally, I agree that "The Talk" tends to be the original reveal to one's spouse about their dressing. I suppose that such a "talk" may occur several times as the...
Hi Samantha...
Some boundaries from spouses are not as cut and dried and expeditious as we would like them to be or, perhaps more to the point, not exactly what we want them to be. From my own...
Yes, similar fantasy but it involved an entire mega mall hopefully for a full day plus two nights which I suppose might only occur on Christmas Day. I'd scout out the mall a day or two prior to make...
Funny that I was pondering just such a predicament not long ago. Was wondering how I would respond should my wife ever choose to say "Sure, go ahead and wear what you want when you want and I'll be...
Wow! Even with the nerves rattling a little that must have been an awesome experience overall.
I know this is a fun question and the responses are great but this one, caryn m, is perfect :)
Hi Jodiee...
My wife knows of my dressing, disclosed to her within the first few weeks together while dating (she just felt like the right one to take the chance with.) I literally walked out of...
That's a great story, Karren. :)
Perhaps another fellow dresser with a more open situation and some experience and intuition offered an assist that day? Or an understanding woman that wanted to...
That's a great story, Stephanie.
Your bold disclosure in stepping out of your comfort zone unexpectedly enriched that woman's life, relieved some personal tension and deepened the relationship...
Hi Charlotte...
Sorry to read that you've stumbled into some dressing doldrums. It's not particularly comfortable when such a chasm within reality presents itself like this.
I'm going through...
When putting on a bra and inserting the forms I'll give the gear a quick once over with my hands to ensure things are in the right places. Similar when buttoning up a blouse or after putting on a...
Nothing major. Wearing a bra for extended hours produces the obvious markings for a while. Same with stay up stockings with the silicone bands. Have worn them for say 12 hours and sometimes a bit...
That's great that your wife is good with nocturnal femme wear, Nancy. :thumbsup:
My wife and I have shared enough discussion on this topic to know how we feel about it. Thankfully we sleep...
Have pondered this ages ago and sought the answer to "Am I normal to be trying on such clothing at any age" question. Certainly I pondered my gender amidst all the searching and very easily and...
OK...Diane T's comment just made me laugh: "it's like a cat explaining to a fish why it's important to make hairballs". That's awesome!
When I disclosed to my wife shortly after we met it was the...
Nothing to speak of this Christmas as I indulged earlier in the calendar for more of a "Christmas in July" moment with a couple of nice dresses and camisoles. My self gift is permitting myself to do...