I've never liked being in the closet with girlfriends, so I have always divulged to my partners fairly early in relationships. But even that left a lot of anxiety and room for rejection and hurt...
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I've never liked being in the closet with girlfriends, so I have always divulged to my partners fairly early in relationships. But even that left a lot of anxiety and room for rejection and hurt...
"We all want to present as women" - No, we do not. Crossdressers are not a monolithic group with the same set of views and objectives. And gender identity is not binary, nor is it mutually...
FB also uses your phone number as identification to identify and suggest friends you may know based on other connections. So even with a private account and a separate email, browsers, etc, if you...
I'm somewhere in the bi-gender/androgynous range of the spectrum and feel very in touch with both my feminine and masculine sides. I don't find them to be mutually exclusive, despite society's...
That sounds like a lot of fun. And like others have already said, as long as it involves consenting adults and you have your SO's consent and all, why not? To me that's a huge benefit of being open...
I buy women's bikinis because of the feminine colors and floral prints as well as the skimpier cut. I don't want them to pass as a speedo or men's briefs. (of which I have many) I want people to...
I pretty much only wear women's bikini bottoms (mostly VS or Prana brand) or some Harajuku custom made men's bottoms in very feminine prints and colors, a feminine pareo for a coverup, some...
Like many of you, I used to either ignore the conversation or I would speak of positive experiences with TGs I have worked with or known firsthand, and a few similar examples like that from friends. ...
I just got in some new Prana Lani bikini bottoms in a few pretty prints. The fit is perfect! Everything is comfy but snug with no exposure at all. I can usually get away with most women's bikini...
I'm another one who is pretty comfortable being seen as a guy wearing women's clothes, painted toenails, lotion/perfume, etc. I have gotten completely dressed w/makeup and wig before and I did enjoy...
I started out wearing speedos, too. Initially for lap swimming (still do) but I gradually got more and more comfortable wearing them elsewhere. Then to women's bottoms, but not just ones that are...
Love it! And kudos to you for the bravery and good response. I, too, am a guy very interested in wearing skirts/heels/dresses in typical male mode. Thank you for your trailblazing efforts. :)
I prefer to be open and honest about my crossdressing from the start of any relationship. I told my last gf before we ever even kissed for the first time. She had some personal reservations about...
Thanks for the responses, all. I do love going to Hippie Hollow and Barton Springs Pool in my bikinis. I live very close to Barton Springs and have been wearing nothing but bikinis or some...
Hi all, just curious how many others publicly wear women's swimsuits, either bikini bottoms, two piece, or one piece, while otherwise in typical male mode. I've been picking up a few new bikini...
I whole heartedly agree, phili. I have informed all SOs about my crossdressing fetish and pansexuality early on in every serious relationship since college. I've never had any leave as a result,...
I remember when first finding this forum how I expected to find so many others just like me. I didn't. The biggest thing I've learned is that all we collectively have in common is some kind of...
I used to be very protective about keeping my femme clothes well-hidden, and I always hated hiding it. That was part of my motivation to come out to my friends as a CD and pansexual. I've offered...
Doesn't bother me at all, and describes me quite well. I've even used it myself when explaining my crossdressing/bisexuality to some of my friends. I rarely dress to pass as a woman, more just to...
Few things have been as liberating in my life as coming out and telling my close friends about my gender bending and sexual proclivities. Every woman I date also gets full disclosure either up front...
I've had the exact same thing happen when going to a gay club dressed, and it was also 3 different guys who approached me in the parking lot as soon as I got out of my car. I found it to be very...
This makes me so happy I have always disclosed my gender and sexuality quirks before or very early into any relationship. I even mention it in the first sentence of my online dating profiles. ...
I really enjoyed reading your well-written post and responses, sometimes_miss. I'm a pansexual submissive crossdresser (I self identify as a sissy) and have pondered a lot how about much the two are...
Hi Becca, I finally came out fully to my friends about 1.5 yrs ago and my only regret is that I did not do it much sooner. It was never something I tried very hard to hide, so they weren't all...
I love the term and use it myself to describe my dressing and gender identity to others. I don't fully dress or try to present as a woman, but simply enjoy being a male with some subtle but...