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Honestly, it helps the more that you do it.

I started out at puberty. In fact, my first "experience" was en femme, or at least as best I could accomplish with belts constricting my waist and...

I was on business travel, and made a request of my parents to give my place a quick drive by while I was gone to see if anything was up.

Before I left for the trip, I left basically everything...

Any season where it is under 60°F (15.5C).

I do love wearing shorts, camis, and tanktops, around the house, but let's face it, it is easier for me to enjoy it all when I'm not sweating. It's...

My primary reason to dress is to relax.

I feel much more comfortable when I've dressed. Recently, I had to hold off on shaving for a month so that I could go on a family vacation/reunion and not...

I agree with Rachel_B, I'd need some money up front. I'd have to upgrade my professional wardrobe! I'm covered on the casual wear front. I only have a few shoes and skirts that would be work...

Mostly in a large plastic bin in the closet. My male work shirts hang above them. I hide a few items simply behind a pair of khakis on hangers. Other items are in drawers. I'll toss a pair of cargo...

You definitely need to walk different ways in different heels.

As said above, boots are by far the easiest, as the material is supporting you. I have a pair of pumps, already a size smaller than...

I don't know what the definition of "pink fog" is for others, but for me it is spending too much money on new clothes, or trying not to be too conspicuous when browsing through a store and having...

Comfort first for me tonight.

A red and black patterned maxi skirt and a simple black tee. 4" heels of course.

No makeup and no wig though. Not worth the trouble tonight. I'd rather not fall...

How did I accept myself?

Slowly, and over time. As others have said, there's no easy answer, and what works for some of us doesn't work for all of us.

For me, I had to accept both sides of...

The cost of having to have two wardrobes, when women's clothing is more expensive than the men's side no matter how hard you search for good deals!

That...and wigs in the summer.

Cats for now, because I'm at work too long to take care of a dog. I personally think it is kinda cruel to leave a dog alone for more than 6 or 7 hours at a time. They're more emotionally needy. Cats...

Since I started at puberty, it used to be a very sexual thing. Every. Single. Time.

Now that I actually do it more often, it isn't as much. It's simply how I relax, the way I feel truly...

To the point where I no longer keep a beard, it does.

Aside from that? Not at all.

I try not to go overboard on the femininity, which pushes one into "effeminately gay" territory.

Real women come in all flavors too. It's may be surprising, but it's really more about correct...

Honestly? Just make it up. :battingeyelashes:

Chin up, chest out, shoulders back, elbows close to the side. Take smaller steps, one in front of the other. Imagine graceful in your head. As Cheryl...

Got all dressed up: Skinny jeans, 4-inch heels, a comfy tee, makeup, wig, cloth hairband, the works. Topped it off with a fur-hooded parka (because it is cold out!) and set off to get the mail.
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I'm a Libra, and I do think I need to keep a balance between my male side and Kat.

I'm not that big into astrology, but it's all in good fun.

Because it would feel weird to address or introduce myself with a male name when in femme. Continuing to use a male name just raises more questions as far as I see it. It's about the challenge of...

CD spectrum.

I think it is more that those of us who are not into sissy fetish play don't like being associated with it, plenty of folks out there assume just because you are a CD, that you are into frills and...

I "quit" for a period of about 10 years, maybe dressing three times total in that period, mostly due university and living at home while working. Also, I didn't fit very well in my sister's leftover...

When I was younger, calling someone else a "sissy" is always a way for the speaker to prop up their own masculinity by cutting down the target's. I honestly don't think it ever bothered me, because...

No one...yet. I'm still building up the courage now that I've increased a lot more.

I'm getting a bit tired of always having to pack everything away when someone comes over.

It can be a good "switch" for me. Change clothes, flip the switch, stop thinking about whatever was stressing me. It's still there, but it in the back of my mind instead of the forefront. Gives it...