Maybe just a smile? My first time out to the mall as Debby (with Melissa Rose) we are eating in a crowded food court and I am obviously nervous but no one is staring or pointing, so I start to relax...
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Maybe just a smile? My first time out to the mall as Debby (with Melissa Rose) we are eating in a crowded food court and I am obviously nervous but no one is staring or pointing, so I start to relax...
Jackie,
One of the first things I discovered as trans is that the more honest you are the less people believe you. "Why yes, I'm wearing Prada Candy. Doesn't it smell wonderful?" and he would...
First, Hi Reine! Hope all is well with you and yours!
What I really want is to be the 51 year old woman I see in my minds-eye and in the mirror at least a couple of times a week but never...
It is fun to help out a friend or newbie that you have gotten to know but beware of the "takers" that are out there! There seems to be this recurring theme of "we have never met in-person, I have no...
Yes. Some of the best experiences in my life have been being accepted by women as just another woman! Doesn't get any better than that!
I don't know where you are in Nor Cal but if you are anywhere near Sacramento, check out the River City Gems! We have monthly events and always a fun, safe, and friendly environment!
Own it Vicki! :D
Go out, be nervous, and revel in it afterwards! You can't top the joy of going out with your girlfriends! We all are a little frightened at first but people really aren't...
Both Suzanne and her daughter looked amazing BTW! I'm just sorry that I couldn't spend more time with them! I was trying to find a friend from the city that I had made arrangements to meet up with...
Well done Suzanne! Missed you and Allie last night.
Debby
I would bet there were more than that!
And the two movies were in fact:
"Priscilla." A GREAT Aussie film and the original. ...
What I thought was fascinating was their discussion of the reaction in different areas Beverley. Some places the audience is just flat or with a show like this just uncomfortable with the subject...
You are correct Jackie, but almost anywhere we go with dignity is a "safe" place IMHO!
I love art and art museums. I frequent the SFMOMA which is unfortunately closed for renovations, the...
I'm hoping Allie will add her own commentary but she WILL talk to anyone! I mean if Pat Robertson were there she would have him in lipstick and heels after a brief conversation!
I am not one to tell anyone what to do and we each have to look at our own circumstances and situation regarding coming out, going out, etc. I am trans*, that is who I am, and my days of trying to...
Yes! My daughter and I shop the vintage shops in San Francisco together!
My 14 year old, that we were trying to keep my being trans* from until she was older, figured it out on her own. She confronted my SO and I and we told her the whole story. Her comment: "Dad, you...
I agree with Jorja and Melissa Rose about the reality of work. :sad:
Hey, but if you are going to fantasize, why not aim high? Waitress?!?!? I wanna be a trophy wife! :daydreaming:
Deb
Yup. No surprise. Go to Micky D's. Their chicken sandwiches are just as good and your not funding a hater when you eat there, which makes them taste even better!
While there are lots of places to go, the only place I can think of to get "outfitted" is down the road in San Jose, about 40-45 minutes south of SF. Check out Carla's.
The short answer is yes - completely.
However I don't think I was "fooling" anyone. When I came "out" as a little child it was made clear to me that I was a boy, not a girl and anything else...
And it was one of Rachel's posts that brought me here! Heck, I wasn't even trans* until I showed up here and saw what fun I was missing!
Deb
Meow! (THAT is why I love you Lori!) Seriously, if I were that young again and knew then what I know now, I would be the damn prom queen! I think the trick now is to get out of the house with as...
Never. Me customer, they employees. My money puts food on their table. I have never had any problem of this sort but would have no qualms about elevating it to the appropriate level to get...
It can or it can't. It can be the "last straw" or it can be the only straw. It can be no big deal. Every individual in a relationship is different and every relationship is different. I will put...
Many ways but she said to me once that "I don't really get all of this (being trans*) but I do get you!" :love: