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I've been using the paper clip & thread method of zipping up back zippers for, well, 50 years. Just bend out one 'leg' of a paperclip, tie a thread onto the loop, and pull. If you have trouble with...

They are not 'fake'. They are very real; you can see them, you can feel them.
One of the best remarks I've ever heard, was by a young nurse I worked with, who responded to a 'fake' remark, was,...

Perhaps the one thing that I can contribute to this thread, is that the sexual component often associated with crossdressing didn't exist for me until I reached puberty. All the crossdressing was...

Over the years, I've read a few people's contributions telling of why they thought that we all crossdressed (or just wanted to). I've been reading psychology books since I was 14, and borrowed my...

The day that my wife found a slip that I had left out, I had two choices and had to decide in the next 5 seconds which way to go. She thought that I was having an affair. I chose honesty, and told...

The people that I know who would likely be troubled with me being a crossdresser, have known me for >50 years. We grew up together, and I know of how the world saw us (crossdressers, TG, etc.) when...

The best advice I've gotten, is to befriend gay women and then get them to let you tag along with them to clubs/bars where gay women go. You can start out going straight, but perhaps with some make...

I dress up in my maid's uniforms, and do lots of domestic stuff which was stereotypical of women back in the 1960's. Clean, cook, vacuum, dust, laundry (ironing especially), shop (online, though but...

Now ancient according to the boys on the courts, when I go down to just shoot baskets, I wear shorty shorts the same as my gym short length when I was in high school in 1973. Yes, they are now...

Same height here, with heels wind up reaching critical height. 340851
Don't forget; most doorways are 80". 6'4" plus 4" reaches that exactly, don't ask me how I know. I've had several pairs of...

Basically, I just don't see it as a reasonable risk vs reward situation. I would not get much out of going out dressed up, and so don't want to take the risk of blowing up my life.

And the always...

Add me to the list; you can't have too many dresses. One of the ladies I worked with (bearing in mind, that I'm still not out), once explained that 'retail therapy' was one of the great joys of being...

'Clear' isn't a big deal. Some rich guys get manicures with clear nail polish routinely.
But, PINK nail polish IS a big deal! And I completely forgot about it, as I'm basically just barely...

^this. Learn what women find attractive about how some men dress, and it will turn your life around. I used to be the same old, jeans and a T shirt and sneakers guy like all my friends, and wondered...

Hell, I'd buy her a house. Those who actually have a mate who accepts a crossdresser as a husband, Maria's wife is worth her weight in gold. I guess it's just hard to remember what it's like to...

Welcome to what every woman goes through. That's why it takes them 10X the time that it takes for men to get dressed to go out of the house. Now you're just feeling 'more like a real woman' does!

It's not whether you have any particular place to wear it; it's if it gives you happiness just by having it there, even if you just wear it around your home. That's my situation; I never go out en...

Never any buzz, never any feeling of excitement from putting on female attire. It just felt normal, like it's what I'm supposed to be wearing. No sexual connection. Wearing man clothes feels like...

Well; have you ever, out of curiosity, tried on an octopus outfit and dove down into the ocean to see what it was like being an octopus with 8 limbs, and crawling along the sea floor?

Probably...

Uh, no. BUT... lots of people feel the need to believe that all other people are in some way just like themselves, in order to feel that they, too, are 'normal'.
I believe the psychological term...

He used to, when he'd see me in a different wig or hat. Now he knows that I'm 'me' no matter what I'm wearing. There used to be a hat that freaked him out, but I wore it every day for about an hour,...

Having known several bi and bi curious women, they were all interested in masculine men, and feminine women.


Women apparently find men dressing, behaving, or expressing things in a feminine...

The 'calming effect' is simply our minds being able to resolve the gender identity dysphoria, by adopting feminine attire and behaviors which help our minds make us subconsciously think that we are...

It's just a matter of wearing those shoes a lot, and getting used to being in them. After developing arthritis in both my knees, suffering from 'loose joints' and the pain and almost falling down...

Fortunately, I have no great need to be 'accepted by the world' in female attire.
I don't go out dressed as a girl, simply because I have no desire to have to deal with the negative ramifications...