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Listen, my husband didn't tell me he was a Cder when we got married, so I had to adapt my WHOLE life around this. So yes, he would be embrassing me. Of corse you wouldn't understand because your a...

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1st glad your ok

2nd unlike many other wives I'm comfortable with my husband doing whatever he likes in our home, however I would be a raging psycho if my husband embrassed me like...

I catch my husband looking at my cloths instead of me.....

@tracy

Ok I get that we all have different situations that we live with and yes yours sounds bad.

But the main part I have a problem with is just the bashing. Your bashing a women on the...

@tracy



This REALLY sounds like your putting your SO down. Reading this kinda made me mad/upset.

I work outside all day, I work on a farm.
I'm in boots, shorts/jeans, no makeup,no jewerly,...

Yep. Women don't look at you guys and think "wow a beautiful lady" we think " nice legs,thin,.......no butt, no boobs, 5oclock shadow,....still just a man in a dress.

And I don't think negatively...

I'm not intimidated by my husband. I see I man in my cloths. Yes sometimes I may be jealous that he can go from man to man in a dress with pretty hair in 10 mins when it takes me an hour just to do...

Hello Laura,

I'm a GG, and I watch my husband deal with this over and over. I always give him tons of compliments but not matter what I say it's always a "roller coaster".

My thought behind it...

Yes advice from a GG that recently found out, don't overwhelm. Don't push it. Listen to HER!

Me and my husband have fun doing this:) I try to tell him now, (since he doesn't have to hide anymore),that he doesn't have to have a folded dress in a box somewhere, now he can try on things. Pick...

I agree with what Yal are saying, but if you knew prior, it should be discussed.

I don't control my husband, and I never would, however, the point is, he respects me enough to not do want I feel...

I get that you wouldnt start a relationship with someone if they didn't accept you cding. I think that should def be discussed before a serious relationship stArted, but if in fact it wasn't and If...

I still think if your SO, accepted the fact that you like to dress(your should already be really happy), but gave you a "list" of things she was not comfortable with, you should respect that. Later...

I love this! Soooo true! As a GG I completely agree! And that's what I was trying to say!

Is this post because of me?

I'm sorry but wives of cders are suppose to set rules and boundaries. The wife is the one thats understanding and accepting, if there are a few things that are hard for...

Paula,

That story makes me really sad.....I'm sorry for all the things you have gone through....


Zoeee,

I told my husband I'd rather him only do it with me and now he said he hates the...

I also think it's when your SO finds out to be honest,

If I was married to my H and 15 yrs down the road he told me, I'd be pretty freakin up set.y

My H told me two yrs into marriage, which I...

I'm sorry to hear that Paula. I do understand about transitioning, I couldn't say I'd stay either, which I'm sorry to admit that but it's the truth.

Honestly, when my husband first told me, I...

Billie, I think you just over stepped her bourdaries. My husband knows not to push me.

Lol it's kinda funny, my husband knows when I say "your werid" or "I can't believe I'm doing this" to back...

I have read soooo much in here.

However. I hear sooo much about how much things are hidden.

I do understand that not all wives, or SOs are as accepting and understandin as I am.

It just...

So I'm gathering, younger males, or newer cders.....

Thank you for replying

Misstee,
I'm so sorry to hear of your hardships in life, no one person should have to deal with all that.

With that being said, that was my first thought,
He's not cheating on me,
He loves me,...

To all the people that says this happens to you, what's your age category?
If you don't mind me asking.


Under 20
21-30
30-40
40-50
50+

When my husband came out to me, we didn't speak for a week, I wouldn't like him touch me.

I wasn't hurt but what he's was doing,which I really didn't like at first, but it's him and I am not...