I understand completely. I used to be concerned simply driving around underdressed. I was scared to death the first time I drove completely dressed. Since I went full time, I've had many...
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I understand completely. I used to be concerned simply driving around underdressed. I was scared to death the first time I drove completely dressed. Since I went full time, I've had many...
Triess has become very fragmented over both admission of LGB members and retention of transitioned members. Some chapters are fine with both, others are not. Their flagship LA chapter has collapsed...
Someone once asked a gangster "Why do you rob banks?" He replied "Because that is where the money is."
Malls have the stuff I want and are pleasant places to be. You're out in public, but it is...
As a TS who has been on this road for a while I have to say that I still don't know what it is like to "feel like a woman". I feel like me, and "me" generally feels more comfortable while presenting...
Depending upon how far you progress across the spectrum, it will become first nature, and even boring. When I first started going out it was so exciting, with planing, wardrobe, jewelery,...
Nervous? I was petrified! I was looking at testing a marriage of over 20 years, something that one doesn't throw away on a whim. I had no clue about my own place on the TG spectrum and barely knew...
Back before I understood TG issues I assumed that MTF crossdressers were gay.
When I became a crossdresser I realized that crossdressers weren't always gay.
Now that I've transitioned, I am, by...
I think that the average woman at DSW is thinking "That's a pretty shoe. I wonder if I can find my size and if it will be comfortable?"
For me, there is little to worry about. I'm going to present this way. I have for years. Everybody treats me as I present, so I'm happy.
Kristi, I agree with you, and I walked in your shoes for a long time while I pondered my own status. My message is simply that a lot of the fears I had during that part of my life were not founded...
In 2011, I was pretty much where you are. I was so afraid that people close to me and at work would find out. I crept out of the house, hid in the back seat of my car as my wife drove it away, and...
I spent a year wearing beanies while my hair was awkward length. I finally got to the point where I could put it in a ponytail and haven't looked back!
Well worth it. I never liked wigs!
Umm, everywhere and everything! We started off with shopping and then expanded into everywhere else.
I'll tell you what NOT to do: Don't do anything that a GG wouldn't do. Don't go wandering around alone at night.
You also don't want to go to someplace where you're the only person to be...
I see it as a continuum. Some are happy with underdressing, some need to wear outerwear, some need to go out, etc., all the way along to some need extensive surgery to conform to the image of natal...
Momma Mia seems to fill the bill.
In Mamma Mia, one of the four romances was gay.
The Danish Girl also leaps to mind.
I'd tell him that if he or his wife didn't want to see me then he should build a solid fence.
More broadly, why are you worrying about a theoretical problem? I've found through experience that...
I have a limited time to write this response, so I'll hit the high point.
The first issue to be addressed is the escort. To me that is a show-stopper.
Our neighborhood isn't all that social, beyond a wave now and then. I used to be worried about the neighbors seeing me, including hiding in the back seat as Mimi drove us away.
Over the years...
You can stand up against hatred without outing yourself. Simply saying something like "is that what you worry about?" will probably cool their jets.
You didn't state which chain you work for and...
We went to see it at the Pasadena Playhouse. The first act was fun and spoke to a lot of things TG individuals feel. The second act turned dark very quickly and the ending was unsatisfying.
The...
Women sing all the time. It's a natural part of their speech patterns!
I honestly don't think that there is one, due to the asymmetry of public attitudes about crossdressing.
Coming up with an activity for women that is non-self-destructive, non-illegal, but with...
Your children will likely figure it out unless you use extreme security measures.
Now, the question is whether you want to burden them with a secret, and the likelihood that the secret will get...