I agree with what all the other posters said. Purging is a bad idea. I used to have a quote in my signature that compared CDing to a boomerang. You can try as you might to toss it far, but in the end...
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I agree with what all the other posters said. Purging is a bad idea. I used to have a quote in my signature that compared CDing to a boomerang. You can try as you might to toss it far, but in the end...
Bonnie, for better or worse, I think you did the right thing. I wish I had been this forthcoming in my life about my CDing. Waiting to drop this bomb later in life, "x" many years into an otherwise...
Rachel, if coming out is not an option, and you don't want to go along with the mysterious GF lie, then pray the Mayans were right about the world ending today... ;)
But seriously now. I think...
Don't know, 10-12 hours? Sounds about right!
That's just great, Kim! I'm genuinely happy for you and these "small" (huge) steps of yours. Keep walking and inspiring the rest of us! :)
I know it's easier said than done, but don't purge. You know it's coming back to you. So, do yourself a favor, rent a self storage unit and put your stash there, until you get an urge. It will be...
Noortje, very interesting post.
I believe the reason many CDers behave this way is because CDing is more of a fetish to them. Playing the girl turns these people on, so emulated behaviors based on...
Ditto! It's all about making that sale, the more the better, especially during the holiday season!
I still have mine, but you can keep it for the bonfire... ;)
So, she knows that you dress, but now wants to see you dressed, is that it? I think that pushing it is never good. If you are not ready, don't do it.
You seem to be really pushing the boundaries, so why listen to anybody's opinion? I say, continue to do your thing of creating and developing your own style!!!
Contrary to what Dufresne says in Shawshank Redemption, I always look at shoes, men's or women's... but hey, then again, I'm not your typical male either... LOL.
None, not anymore. But I used to, and pretending I had a 6'2" SO was my most frequent one... LOL.
Maybe the fact she lives in South Carolina, and SCC is in Atlanta????
I'm not out and wearing fragrance would give me away REALLY quickly... :(
Time off comes and goes. I've gone for as long as a year and a half without dressing. However, I wasn't repressing anything. I just didn't feel the need to dress during all that time. And the same...
Cindy,
Crossdressing has nothing to do with you and everything to do with him. Odds are he began as a little boy, years before even dreaming about getting to know you and marrying you. So, the...
Ah... the joys of adrenaline! Glad you had a good time! :)
Ever tried a burka?
Click here to find some fashionable looks using that garment... LOL.
I'm not sure I fully understand your post. Lemme give it a shot.
First of all, I don't think CDing has anything to do with liberation, courage or wanting to look pretty. It has to do with being...
You MAY be closer? What are you waiting for? Why HAVEN'T you told her yet? Do you really think she's not thinking about it just because nothing else was mentioned? I'm pretty sure she hasn't...
So, if you found money in some of your brother's bags, would it give you the right to grab it, just because it's sitting in your shed? Sorry, but that's a very lame justification for your...
I've sorry, but I can't sugarcoat it. This is probably one of the hardest skills to master. Takes a LOT, and I do mean a LOT, of time, persistence and practice. And only perfect practice makes...
That is such a male thought... just because she asked you out, and is cute, does not mean that you need to be automatically available. The real question is: are YOU interested in her? If so, you can...
In short, the answer is yes I would, and no CDing isn't enough. But it's complicated. I would like to have been a GG, from the start, but I can't. At this point, I could opt for transition, but...