It's called sarcasm, Tamara. Sorry, but not all GGs here LOVE their H's CD. Some of us need to laugh or joke about it when we can or seriously, we won't stay married.
If this forum is just about...
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It's called sarcasm, Tamara. Sorry, but not all GGs here LOVE their H's CD. Some of us need to laugh or joke about it when we can or seriously, we won't stay married.
If this forum is just about...
My H is absolutely part narcissist. Funny, but I don't think it makes him a bad guy, just a guy who knows what he wants and goes after it. Part of me thinks many men hold this trait. But yep, an...
I suspect there's a higher percentage of public CD here than on other forums. The others that I've frequented have done surveys on members and each time, less than 20% were out in public. So it's no...
Not to change the thread direction or anything, but many here suggested the OP should remind his wife he's not female and she's not losing her man etc.
Well, what exactly is happening then?...
This seems very smart :)
Given many here are over six feet, lets face it, you WILL be read, as girls can be tall but we're usually not THAT tall. We also don't have Adam's Apples or large hands...
Some avatars are a little unsettling. Even as the wife of a CD I still do a double take when I see a grown man in wig and frilly skirt or whatever. My first thought when I first saw this was 'he is...
I'm glad things are finding balance for you. Balance will help for sure, but remember, the repression you speak of was not something your wife was aware of. It was entirely your choice. She has spent...
NicoleA, I suspect this will turn out as well as you handle it.
Sure, plenty of GGs don't like CD (myself included)and wouldn't chose to be with someone who does this. BUT we can learn to tolerate...
Funny thing is, this is also common for little girls - we also try on Daddy's shoes and draw on the handlebar moustache and pretend to be doctors or whatever else we are curious about. But we don't...
I can't imagine many horny teenage boys stand in their bedrooms thinking "I know, I'll get all those gorgeous girls to want me by dressing exactly like them." Yeah, I think not. Even horny teens...
Reine is right - fetish can and usually does start in early childhood when curiosity and exploration is at its height and long before sex is known about. Then puberty sexualizes whatever activity the...
Isha, you really do sound like a considerate, thoughtful H. You are doing your best to be who are and who you need to be without destroying the life you already have. I really admire that.
I hope...
I'm not sure how much of this you've told your wife, but I wouldn't mind betting when she tells you to do whatever you want and then refuses to discuss it further, that she's really not okay with...
Funny, but I don't think you're a bad person for keeping it hidden at all, Isha. I was told (well, parts of it) in the early days and I truly think I struggle more for this than if I'd had more time...
Maslow's Mum, I don't think you're odd - I'd say you're lucky. I have educated myself over the years to be open minded but the town I grew up in definitely didn't encourage this and I have my own...
My guess is he wishes you'd never told him!
If he feels like the rest of us living in 'normal' land (ha, yeah right) then he's uncomfortable with what having a CD as a friend means about him. He's...
I'm fairly certain I'd get read. I dressed for a theatrical thing (Shakespeare, as always) many moons ago at my all girls school and looked ridiculous with a moustache and cap, lol. I'm not built...
Sally24, my H hints at the same - I have access to technicolor while he's stuck with grey. This is very subjective, in my mind. Many women see men as holding the color. Just look back sixty years and...
Well I think you're all an asset to me as I never thought of this the way many here described, either. :)
In my situation my H is like NicoleScott and dresses for a thrill so if he did go out it...
Tawne, I agree you can and should be able to go out if you want. I'm just trying to wrap my ahead around all this sleuth style blending that goes with it. Is it truly so terrible if people see you...
I promise this isn't an antagonistic post! :)
I'm curious about public CD for those who still identify as men. (No TS answers thanks as that's a very different situation). Anyway, I'm sure this...
Ha! Yeah, if my H tried to use this rationalization on me, I'd be informing him it was MY duty to sit on my ass all day, drinking wine and eating chocolate because that alleviates my stress which...
Cynthia, I don't like rugged either, lord no. They often have their own issues going on, lol.
I guess masculinity to me is a quiet confidence, a comfort in knowing who you are, a tendency to lead...
SilentPartner, your sister is with a CD, too?? How does that happen?!
Just makes me realize this is far more common than realized. Either that or your family has some sort of genetic allure that...
As SilentPartner wrote, the wigs, make up, femininity etc are definitely not what I like about my H. I find it curious that anyone would think a GG would prefer this stuff. I assume some do but I...