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My partner is now fulltime and on hormones, she is TS. I see her as female. Apparently, so does the rest of the world. My 9 yr old son thinks its incredibly funny because when they are out...

The best thing to do if someone asks like this is to say that you are transgendered. Most large companies have non discrimination policies, and probably this salesperson just didn't know what to do....

Teal, I have to agree your hips do look great!

But I have to wonder, you say you are unlucky because your wife is not tolerant, but how can she ever be tolerant if she doesn't know that you dress?...

Just wanted to give another point of view here. GG's generally need to go and run things by someone close to them, such as a sister, best friend or parents. I think in this case she was seeking...

Love is the glue that binds this relationship together. I would not stay for the kids sake, or the mortgage, or curiosity, or whatever... It is only the love that can make this work. I'm one of...

My SO is here (tori-e) and posts mostly in the TS section. I probably post more as she has 2 local support groups that she attends face to face meetings and I have none.
SO these on-line groups are...

Yes, not only does it seem plausible, but it happened to me too. Seeing Tori dressed for the first time was a real turning point in my acceptance and support level. I would never in my life have...

I hope that you keep trying. You do belong and I believe that there is somebody for everybody.
If I ever lost Tori, heaven forbid, I would NOT be able to go back to regular men and a plain vanilla...

I hated them the first time that I wore them, and I hate them even more now. Maybe some of the other GG's will have something more exciting to say about this.

But put my hubby in a pair of thigh...

My husband has more courage than all the macho men I know. The things that he has done and faced over the years and even more so since he has come out, I can't think of many other men that could do...

This is all about love. Unconditional love. I can't tell you what you should do (although counselling is a good choice), I can just share my own experience.

When my husband Tori came out to me,...

The dealbreaker for me would be cheating. That is having an affair with another person.
Brenda

My husband Tori actually never was a CD, has always known he was TS. I didn't know until about 1 1/2 years ago. If you had asked me then, I would have said that transition of any kind was a...

One of the things that I always notice is eyebrows. I have been slowly working on Tori's eyebrows to get them to a more manageable shape. (didn't want to do it all at once so that nobody at work...

I would definitely go on the casual side. The first time I saw Tori fully dressed she wore a simple sweater and knee length denim skirt. She looked great.

One thing that I hear a lot of GG's...

Not in the least.

Transforming Families by Mary Boenke
It's a book full of personal experiences as told by children, parents, grandparents and SO's of what it was like to find out that a loved one was transgendered...

If you can stand another GG getting in here, then i have to put my 2 cents in and say Not Now! I'm the biggest advocate of CDs telling their wives and no there is no perfect time to do it. But...

I go straight for the eyebrows, as that is the first thing that I had to fix up for Tori when she came out.
I don't assume that all men with nice eyebrows are CD/TG, I just observe them and wonder...

Aileen and Julie, you both crack me up! And I welcome CD comments too, or I would have posted this in the GG forum. So go for it!

Kathy, I hear what you're saying. Tori treats me like a...

I have been thinking a lot lately, what would I do if something were to happen to my husband (Heaven forbid). This whole TG thing has made it such that my life will never be the same, with or...

You make a very good point here Sophia. My husband is TS and he wakes up in the morning, walks in his sleepy state to the shower, looks down and is startled to see a penis there. I believe that his...

Look in the yellow pages for a store that sells theatrical makeup. They sell beard cover there.

As an alternative you could go for laser hair removal. My partner Tori does that and the shadow is...

You asked for GG's opinions and I agree with what has been said here. I never assume a guy is gay just because he has pierced ears. In fact, I think there is soemthing very attractive about gold or...

This is a very interesting thread to read. When my husband came out to me, he gave me a book called "My Life in 2 Genders" by Jennie Boylan (formerly Jim Boylan). It totally freaked me out! Talk...