Thank you for your note - a random unexpected compliment can be the best confidence builder in all of the world. And - she did and does look WAY better than I do...
Meghan
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Thank you for your note - a random unexpected compliment can be the best confidence builder in all of the world. And - she did and does look WAY better than I do...
Meghan
Thank you for...
All male underwear thrown out for over a year. Panties only, always shaved, I don't stand to pee any more. I mostly am the bottom for my wife instead of the other way around. She locks me up in...
On Saturday night, we had to find a spot in a very full parking lot and walk our way into one of our favorite places on the planet - Oscars Tea Room.
My wife and I were on our way to their holiday...
Hi Isha,
A very thought-provoking post. I have been away from this forum for almost 2 years and it's refreshing to return to such a unique and well thought-out perspective.
I've been dealing...
Hon, you can't stop. You're stuck with this. There are no "I successfully stopped being gender variant" stories out there. You are who you are. ]
meghan
I totally understand.
It's so easy to be drawn in to it all. I've had a couple of very disappointing outcomes when trying to help out individually. It only takes a couple of times getting...
My wife has dressed progressively more femininely since I have been out. She says I am giving her inspiration, she's thrown out all of her old, drab cotton undies and has shifted toward silky and...
I have a pet theory on purging and wanted to float a trial balloon on this.
Generally purging follows a "bad" event. For example, the wife catches you and demands it stop, something happens that...
There aren't many socially acceptable things that I can come up with. Playing a woman in a play, maybe? A dare or a bet related outcome, possibly?
I think Cheryl is 100% correct on this one. ...
Hi Stacy,
Yep. I don't think it's a memory issue so much as it is a part of being human.
As we get more comfortable with ourselves, there is less mental "filtering" going on. Shaving legs is...
Yes! I have been doing an unprecedented amount of core work (abs, butt, obliques, etc) since April and that, plus the circuit training, plus eating better has resulted in almost 35lbs lost, and a 7...
100% agree. GG's follow the same rules. They know if they wear something revealing or way too tight, or deck out the makeup etc, they will attract attention. Sexy legs and heels attract attention....
Steph
Yes. Every day.
Here gets you only so far. Here helps, to be sure, the controlled and relatively safe exchange of ideas is a great place to start. I believe it's only a starting...
This one is tough, because 15 years is a good experience base.
The key thing here is that you've recognized that the current state isn't working. Your solution to that problem is an extreme...
That is so freaking cool, Anne. She probably has sensed that presence at some level, and is now working it out along with you.
I am sure there will be more than a few bumps, but it is SO COOL...
She probably thought it was nothing more than a way to tell you "I get it". My wife has hijacked a couple of pairs and I am all for it! Before that, she was wearing some, shall we say, less...
I started dressing before first grade, and it was on from there! By 10 I had whole outfits planned!
Meghan
Give it time! So glad to hear that you trusted her enough to tell her. That's the first step, and you did it on your terms and didn't wait to get "caught".
Also cool that this your 700th post! ...
We're humans and we're biased. I am sure I look much goofier than I appear to myself, but there's always a chance that I don't.
I would say "needing" positive feedback is a stretch, but it sure...
Hi Persephone,
I grew up and have spent half of my life in Kansas. The open plains are breathtaking. I didn't appreciate it as much when I lived there, I constantly thought about getting out of...
I shave everything, Lara! Everything except some arm hair, which I trim down.
My hair stylist even shaves my back, for $5.00!!!
I will never, ever go back!
Meghan
The best part is they way they feel under the sheets...sleeping is way less hot and a lot more comfortable!
Meghan
I totally agree. I think purges are horrible and unpleasant. I will also never endure one again.
Meghan
Hi Jenny,
It's hard to remember in the moment that the feelings, either great or not so good, will pass.
I have probably been through three significant purges in the last 20 years. However, I...
I kind of look at it this way, either:
1. You are an impostor and you'll get bored with this eventually
or
2. You really want to learn and will move past the negative comments to find...