Yeah, I should clarify. I'm not talking about panties or anything like that, but bustiers, gowns/nighties, robes, etc. (what I was looking for was a bustier). All my girlfriend asked was if it was...
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Yeah, I should clarify. I'm not talking about panties or anything like that, but bustiers, gowns/nighties, robes, etc. (what I was looking for was a bustier). All my girlfriend asked was if it was...
Hey everyone. I know I haven't been posting much lately, but I have been lurking. Today my girlfriend and I went out shopping, and since I've been in the market for some lingerie, she went into La...
The first time I came out to somebody. That is way up there. Finally, I had somebody I could tell about it, somebody I could talk to. It was weird, living in shame for my whole life, and then all...
Because we aren't understood, and there don't seem to be many efforts out there to even try to understand us. Even university courses (and I know this from personal experience) that are supposed to...
If only for a brief moment, it's true. Today, I had an extremely short conversation that gave me one of the greatest highs I've ever had. I was sitting in class, and I noticed the girl behind me...
Hey everyone, if this is inappropriate to post, I apologize. I've seen similar posts, though, so I think that as long as I don't get too explicit, I'll be okay. Now, onto my thoughts.
I'm...
Great, now I guess I have to add full hair removal to my to-do list lol. I've never shaved more than my legs, but I have a friend who has offered to wax my chest. That sounds horribly painful, but...
Thanks Maria. And you got me thinking that I should probably describe them.
So the first one I bought was pretty simple. It has a black dress, with two white bows on the front near the hem of...
Thanks Serinalynn. And to Jennifer, I need more than mary janes. I need good stockings (either dark in colour or fishnet) and, this is pushing my budget and my luck lol, but also a corset. If I...
Hey everyone, I had a great weekend and I wanted to share it. I was hanging out with my friend, and we went costume shopping. I decided I was finally going to do something I've fantasized about for...
It's too early to say for sure, but I have found somebody on the site who is really interesting. She is open minded to the whole thing, and we have a lot of other things in common. I was actually...
I just opened a new profile on a dating site...this one has no pic attached to it. I put in my first paragraph that I am a crossdresser. I had reservations about this, about it getting out somehow,...
To Glenda: My friend and I are both twenty, going on twenty one. He has been in a serious relationship since late high school, and I talk to him about all of my dating woes (not something I share...
Okay, now that I think about it, it's really two questions. He's a guy friend that I've known since fifth grade. I'm not sure that we're what you call "close." We hang out. We drink. We play...
For those of you who've read my blog (yeah right!), some of this will be familiar, but my old views on sexism have been coupled here with a recent realization. First, let me explain exactly what...
Once again, on the car/house issue. Perhaps I should phrase my argument this way. When someone asks you who you are, you don't respond with "I drive such-and-such a car" or "I live in a three story...
You're right in that vegetarianism is different from tastes in food. But ethics are a deeper part of a person's identity. Not eating meat, as a vegetarian, isn't a matter of taste, which was your...
Good questions, Joanne. The time is not right for me yet because I'm still very young, without much of a public face or voice. I am unemployed, and still receiving my education. Because I'm a...
So you're saying that a vegetarian who lives in an RV and refuses to drive a foreign car is nothing more than a vegetarian who lives in an RV and refuses to drive a foreign car? That's their whole...
Don't worry, Emily, my bubble remains intact. I'm not saying that it would be instantaneous, or easy. I just believe that, for the most part, people couldn't care less. At first, there'd be shock,...
That's exactly what I'm saying, actually. This is a well documented psychological/sociological fact. Gender roles are learned, not inherent.
You do raise some other interesting questions,...
I think of normal as being a default. Anyone who is not abnormal is normal. And because I've used this thread to demonstrate that crossdressing is not abnormal, it--for me anyway--falls into the...
A couple people seem to be hung up on my use of the word "normal." So allow me to explain the precise meaning I'm shooting for here. First of all, I'm not saying anything about us needs to change,...
Thank you to all those who replied, and who support my point of view. I will take this chance to respond to those who disagreed, just because I love a good debate. :tongueout
To Patrice: My...
This post is directed at MtF CDs specifically, but all are welcome to reply and comment.
Wake up and smell the coffee, people, we are normal. Yes, a bold statement, but a true one nonetheless. ...