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I just got really careless, my wardrobe was becoming rather large, and was kept in boxes in the attic, my wife never went up there. I kept buying clothes, and shoes, lots of shoes, and didn't have...

Wow Marla, I haven't been on here in a while, but your statement makes me glad I visited again. I couldn't have expressed that any better, my choices in life make it unlikely that I will transition....

Mines not really accepting, more tolerant than anything, and doesn't want any part of seeing me dressed. However since she has become more tolerant, she has taken advantage of the fact that she has...

Amy, take the advise of some of the other girls on here about seeing a therapist. From personal experience, yes most therapists have seen and heard it all, and are trained to not be judgemental,...

This is an interesting thread, I dream that I am living my life as a female, no matter what I'm wearing, every night, my life is complete, and then I wake up and am jolted into the reality that I'm...

Thanks, I had looked at that website before, guess I just didn't dig deep enough, or read far enough down the page.:hugs:

Christy

I have heard of the CD groups like Tri-Ess, and Tau Chi, but I have recently been informed of a group called "Boys 'R' Us", and am curious as to what they are about. If anybody knows anything about...

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Well said, that should be every married crossdressers daily mantra, I found out the hard way that your spouse is what should matter first and foremost, do all of the above, and she will...

Me too, I used to do the full femme parade when I was younger and single, but with a wife and 2 kids, and all the travel I do for work, I find it hard to squeeze in sleep. Now I've cut it down to...

Billijo, your question kind of bothers me, first of all there are no freaks here, just some wonderful wholesome crossdressers, who came her to finally accept that this is a fundamental part of who we...

I need to put the "fun", back in dysfunctional in my family. I didn't tell my wife, she found out, but with the help of a good therapist that specializes in transgender issues, she has become much...

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I've noticed a common theme among this thread, and that is the fact that we are somewhat, envious of the connections women can make with other women and that they feel free to be...

Ugh, I wore a pair of boxers for the first time in a long time the other day and didn't remember how uncomfortable they are for me.
I wear panties 24/7, just a suggestion Susan, if your worried...

Thank goodness, for Big Beautiful Women, or we would never be able to do this. I'm 6"1, and built like a linebacker, but I'm fit and wear an 18, but inside I'm a size 6,:heehee: I know, but a girl...

Anything feminine, that my wife would choose for me. She has grown so much more understanding of my Cding, and that simple act would mean so much to me.:daydreaming:

Christy

Robin Meade, for me too, also Alyssa Milano, of 'Charmed"

Christy

Heather,
Make sure you tell your therapist up front like curse suggested. Not all therapists are well versed in gender identity, or gender dysphoria issues, it is somewhat of a specialty. I saw...

GG, for me it's all the way or nothing for me, not going to happen though, I have too much invested in my life the way it is right now. I do feel that deep inside that is what I was meant to be, and...

Laura,

Your wife is calling your bluff, and trying to use the crises with your grandkids pending divorce to blackmail you into stopping the crossdressing.
The school counselors dont't have a leg...

:iagree: Just to stir the pot a bit, I found this article from Science Daily, it's a bit old but has some interesting research that somewhat supports how this could possibly develop.

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As for me I'm in a state of flux, from confusion about what I was doing at such an early age, and yeah the pleasure I derived from that. On to dressing more and realizing how much more I enjoyed...

87% feminine, 13% male, I'm going to have to work harder at this,..................or shop more:daydreaming:

Christy

OMG, Sherry, that made me cry, that is so sad. It reminded me of an English Springer spaniel, that I was in love with that I had to give away, broke my heart. It also reminded me of how much, I'll...

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I couldn't have said that any better, the only thing wrong with internet shopping is the guessing, at what may or may not fit, it's such a hit or miss adventure. Somebody needs...

Craig,

You've gotten a lot of good advice from the girls on this forum, and this is one heck of a place for a lot of support, for both you and your wife. I'll just add my two cents, please talk...