I always have a red dress. In fact I am wearing one today. Very conservatively cut, below the knee, ruby red dress. This dress just screams out "this is a fifty year old woman".
Love always,...
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I always have a red dress. In fact I am wearing one today. Very conservatively cut, below the knee, ruby red dress. This dress just screams out "this is a fifty year old woman".
Love always,...
Zalial,
Passing is a state of mind. If you believe you are passing, then you are passing. If on the other hand you believe you are not passing, then you will not pass no matter how well you may...
Hi JessicaVal,
I spent 42 years trying to be a man by emulating them, but to say what it is to be a man is different depending on what man you ask, or even woman for that matter. There is no trait...
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Does this answer the question?
Love always,
Elizabeth
Hi Klair,
Someone said, I think Seinfeld, that the number one fear people have is public embarrassment not dying. Being passable means not being publicly embarrassed. No one, or perhaps very few...
Hi Barbara,
No, you are not. You like what you like, you can't help that. Being honest about what you like and what you want is how you find happiness. As long as you accept people for who they...
Hi Missmuffet,
I am not what you are looking for as I am transsexual, however you will find many people like your husband. It is much more common than you might think. Welcome, you are in the...
You would give it all up for the right woman? Maybe for a while. But like a shiny new car that finally becomes just another monthly payment, the newness wears off and the desire to dress returns....
I remember when I used to tell myself that. It worked for a long time.
Love always,
Elizabeth
My experience tells me that one can never go wrong coming clean. Lying is only one more obstacle that has to be overcome. One can not change themselves for another person, so there is no point in not...
Rob,
There is no time certain day when one should come clean. However, every relationship reaches the "is this serious?" or it does not. That is the time to say something. If you are serious...
Hi Underdresser,
I think you are doing the right thing. If this is someone you could be serious with, she deserves to know. She is either going to be cool with it, or she is not.
Love always,...
Hi Soccer,
I believe at this point the biggest problem you have is not that you wore her clothes, it's that you have not told her you are a crossdresser. The loss of trust and how she feels about...
Anne,
What a beautiful self realization. I can totally relate to it, as that is what happened to me at age 42. In one week, I filed for divorce and transitioned to living full time as the woman I...
I told my mom I was trans and she said "well I don't know about you being trans?". I said "mom, it's not a question that I was asking your opinion, I was telling you not asking you.". Haven't spoken...
Hi Aspen,
I didn't really find anything about it difficult. What was difficult was living as a man. Living as a woman seems natural to me so I don't really have to do anything to do it. But in all...
Hi Anne,
I also love pink and feel much the way you do. They call it "the pink fog" but it never cleared for me. Ironically the color pink does not exist. It's a fabrication of our brain. There is...
Hi Wildaboutshoes,
As to the true or false question, it's my experience that more likely than not, a SO is going to have to deal with the issue of her partner going out in public in one way or...
Hi Lola,
Having been in the community for a long time and having seen many significant others upset about crossdressing, it has been my experience that trust is the major issue. I have yet to meet...
Christian GG,
It is my personal feeling that this relationship is doomed. You clearly value what other people think and the embarassment of being with a crossdresser or transsexual is more than...
Barb,
Our society hands out a lot of harsh treatment for crossdressers. Anytime we let our secret out, we risk everyone knowing. In fact I advise people all the time, if you go out, be prepared...
Hi girls,
I have a daughter that I adopted. She is the product of a previous marriage of my first wife. We moved in together when she was only 1½ years old and was raised a my child. We never...
Hi girls,
I am a most definite 5+
I dress full time and have not been in boy clothes for an entire day for over a year. I did have to make a few court appearances for my divorce, but I was only...
Hi Carson,
I agree with Kathy on this one. It seems to me that she does not have a problem with crossdressing, she has a problem being married to one. The intense social pressure of being a...