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Congratulations Anne! I hope the world seems so much brighter, happier and welcoming for you, as it did for me when I came out.

After choosing Melanie Anne Phillips approach, I would work on talking in my female voice in the car, with my wireless headset perched on my ear, so that people would think I was talking on my cell...

Out of curiosity, I bought a card game on clearance at Barnes & Noble called "The Battle of the Sexes". The object of the game is for men to answer question about things women "typically" know about...

Today, while I was out en femme, I walked up to the sinks in a Women's bathroom when a 20-something woman looked up. We smiled at one another through the mirror and she said "Wow! Your makeup is...

Hi Kimberly,
Do you use your ID for when you fly en femme? I'm thinking this might be the most useful reason to have an ID with an female picture on it (and why I got one).

Fia

Your coworker glances under your desk and sees your hot pink toenail peeking through the hole in your black dress sock since you have your stiff, new wingtip shoes off - you might be a crossdresser.

As part of my approach to blend when I go out, I prefer wearing what other women do for the same situations (shopping at malls, going to a street fair, etc.), though often a little more dressy or...

Very nice! Given how open and respectful everyone was, it turned into a "win" for everyone! You, the students and us (the TG community) - we all came out for the better!

We're involved with various dog sports. I've had the same thing happen to me a few times - the dog's owners say "funny, the dog usually doesn't like men".

Our dogs are okay with my female...

I think you're right - the thrill is still there for me, but the heady rush from going out in public has faded.

My "stretch goals" have got to do with being more emotionally expressive and...

I was wondering for those members that feel its important that they blend or pass, and most of the time are successful at it…
. Has anything you’ve done rivaled the thrill you had when you were...

I think you're on to something! The second insight you shared is what my wife gave as a reason for requesting me to reveal my femme self to her, slowly, at her pace. And too, my wife has similar...

Congratulations Windy! Life becomes complicated enough - then layer on that being TG, and add to the mix all the twists and turns to hide it!

I'm glad you've opened up to your family at such an...

Congratulations Erin! I too recently had a much better than expected response from my wife. I didn't realize how much of a burden my hiding my other self from her was, until now. I think our...

Perhaps seeing you dressed is her way of coming to accept your other self and to satsify her curiousity? This is the case with my wife.

Now, my wife has seem me dressed two other times, once...

Your responses have helped me figure out how to even my tan! My head, neck and hands were getting more tanned than the rest of me. So, I laid out in the sun in our yard which is pretty private,...

I prefer to dress all the way if I have 4 or more hours to be enfemme. For me my desires have shifted from articles of clothes to presenting as a woman on public. My reason is that I'm seeking to be...

I was wondering how others feel about summer tans. I try to keep covered in en drab so I don't get a farmer tan, and covered when en femme so I don't get shoulder strap tans (hard to explain). Yet...

Thank you for your post! I understand that when I was 4 or 5 years old I wrote and drew with my left hand - I was coaxed to use my right hand instead. I should try writing and drawing with my left...

I expected the same too, so I was a bit surprised at how spontaneously a different style emerged - I was wondering if anyone else had experienced the same thing?

I was at the Post Office en femme the other day, and had to fill out a form- I noticed my handwriting was quite different than when en drab! It was quite legible pretty and feminine! I recall now...

Sometimes my failing confidence is because I’m not confident I can “see” myself objectively enough anymore. And although I may look for something to fix in how I look or act it may be this...

This is my reason for doing it en femme, to make it more interesting while getting something done. I'm about full up for now on shopping for women's clothes.

I plan to run some errands en femme - one of them is to buy some en drab clothes for myself (that'll be an odd experience). I'm wondering if any of you have done this and if your style preferences...

It occurred to me that I'm more self conscious dancing when in boy mode than girl mode. Once I danced in female mode, I realized that when in boy mode, I've been worried my dance movements were too...