I have to say, this thread is the best news I've seen in a long time. I had largely dropped out of this community because I felt rather alone in my life as a bearded man in a dress, and I have...
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I have to say, this thread is the best news I've seen in a long time. I had largely dropped out of this community because I felt rather alone in my life as a bearded man in a dress, and I have...
Does that mean you are going to sell your shorts?
Thank you! I'm here all week. Try the hemlock, and be sure to tip your waiter/waitress/whatever they prefer to be called.
Well, I'm going to have to disagree with you on that one. Never mind attempting to appear as one or the other, a guy wearing a dress (but making no attempt to otherwise pass - didn't shave, doesn't...
Danielle, I can't address the guilt and other personal issues in your life but I have put a lot of thought into being a Christian who is a crossdresser. I wrote an article about it here:...
Lorileah, I have always found that philosophy ("better to ask forgiveness than permission") an indication of complete to-hell-with-everyone-else narcissism at best, and a psychopath at worst. A...
I agree with everyone here (with one exception, in a minute...) that you'll feel much better once it's in the open. Two things I must stress: First, make it clear that you are still the man she fell...
I can't even imagine what that kind of conversation would be like. "Hi, I'm Karren. I'm a crossdresser too!" "F*** you, lady! Mind yer own f***in' business! Geddaddaheah*!"
* Brooklyn for "Get...
Karren, whatever ends up happening... stay in touch! Your humor has been one of the things that keeps me coming back here when I otherwise don't know why I bother.
I do hope that you're able to...
Let me just add onto Randi's excellent response and suggest this: If God wants you to stop crossdressing, God will provide you the emotional strength and determination to do so.
I also agree with...
Me too!
Just kidding (sort of). I totally agree with Mary that it's the quality, not quantity, of the responses that matters. And since mine was one of them, you know that the overall quality of...
I won't get on my soapbox yet again on the subject, just adding my agreement that I wouldn't have a problem with my wife reading everything here. Last night I marked some pages in Roaman's so she...
That's one of those pun-type jokes I keep hearing so much about, isn't it?
Fascinating topic, Karren! It really got me to thinking... I have been different in many ways all my life. Never did like sports, but neither do I particularly enjoy "girly" activities like...
And once again, Karren wins the "Funniest tranny on the planet" competition with almost no effort at all. Why do the rest of us even try? We are not worthy!
You're giving two conflicting desires. Either you dress in public OR people don't know. What's more important to you? Many of us have spent our lives being perfectly happy dressing up at home,...
LeAnne, good on ya for being open and willing to work on the relationship. That's more than half the battle right there!
The important thing is to find out what SHE wants. Find out what makes...
Thousand or so a year? Holy cow, I haven't had that much "allowance" total in the 20+years we have been married! If I spend more than $20 a month both of us feel it in the checkbook. She grumbled...
If she has outright stated that she does is not interested in effeminate men and that's exactly how you see yourself, you surely do need to find a gentle way to tell her -- sooner rather than later. ...
Winter is great for people who underdress. Top layer, "manly" long sleeved shirts and sweaters. Nobody knows all the silky layers underneath, or that my "socks" are actually opaque patterened...
If that happens, I totally want a picture of you with the wedding dress... and your pads and skates on, holding your hockey stick.
Hi, glad to meet you. My name's Ralph. Sounds like we have a lot in common :-)
The majority you say? Here we go on another statistical dispute... I suppose if you take that literally as "50.001% or more" I'd buy that based on the number of people here who have expressed a...
As you can see, we can't even agree on the definitions here on this site! Remember that "transvestite" is just the literal Latin translation of "crossdresser" -- "trans" = "cross", "vest" = "dress"...
Zora, I don't think it's necessary to come out to your mother, but I absolutely advise against marrying someone and then just hoping she'll accept.
Even if you never come out to anyone else, you...
Hannah, it sounds like you might be pushing the crossdressing a little too much on your wife. If she is expressing reservations of ANY kind, back off and listen. She might be saying "don't spend...