I strikes me that it should not matter if you identify as a crossdresser or an out TS, as I am. I work in a dirty place at a tradionally male job. I take the subway to work, in clean, average woman's...
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I strikes me that it should not matter if you identify as a crossdresser or an out TS, as I am. I work in a dirty place at a tradionally male job. I take the subway to work, in clean, average woman's...
When a young boy feels an attraction to femininity, and things feminine, there will be effects. Living in our culture, it's not unusual for parents, peers, advertising, and the media in general, to...
Holy crow, Kate! Great welcome! I've been in that restroom lots of times! I haven't seen a fight yet, but the upside would be no one pays attention to ya. (actually, that's true without punches being...
Obviously, I have no idea if the level of gender dysphoria you experience means you are a transsexual or not. If and when one is ready, they are ready. When the bell goes off, there really isn't any...
I see trans women all the time. Except for exchanging smiles across the subway aisle with a couple of them, I leave them alone. I'm full time and transitioning, and it does depend on the situation...
Violating somone's privacy and property is always wrong, whether they find out or not. Sheesh, you're 50. Buy your own toys. As a transitioning TS who has all the empathy in the world for those who...
This is why I said these are dangerous people. And why you open up alot of anger even when casually talking about them and and their "theories". It's so frustrating. I won't be at DSM V and they...
I understand that, Reine, but if you look at the original post, there are also questions about why it is or isnt discussed, whether or not it is very new phenomena. and a mention of a particular...
I was going to say almost exactly the same things as SamanthaM....
Whatever autogynophelia is, and however anyone feels they relate to it, is fine for any individual. Any discussion of Blanchard,...
Ok, this ain't a great situation to begin with, seeing as you didnt tell your wife before you married, but I realise you aren't alone, there. It happens. Fear is a strong thing, especially for...
Ask him if you can dress in his office. :)
Hugs,
Melissa:)
I thought this disscussion, despite the obvious landmines, just might be somewhat worthwhile. Until I read this. I'd expect a statement like this from many places and people, but not here. Your anger...
It is? I'm Just wondering where that is proscribed, civilly or legally. 2 partners share responsibility for things like that, if they want the relationship to work, don't they? If I'm "protected" by...
Most people do not do what you did. I'm proud of you.
Workplaces differ. What's considered tattling amongst, say, a small group of construction workers may be a real cause for concern and...
Makeup-10-15 minutes
Hair-10-15 minutes
....And even that P's me off!
Hugs,
Melissa:)
Lemme ask you...why do you have to choose? You really aren't any different from the vast majority of gender-variant people out there. It seems to me you simply haven't figured out the best way to fit...
She's contradicting herself when she says it's addictive behavior like drugs or alcohol, then says, "You could stop if you wanted to".
Look, any behavior can be destructive and addictive....
...Uh, yeah.
Hugs,
Melissa:)
You Are 68% Girly
You're a pretty girly chick, and you're not ashamed to admit it (or wear pink).
But you're also practical. You can hang with the guys, as long as they're not too gross!
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Women are treated better, as a whole. Women are also, overwhelmingly, highly sexualised, which isnt always about being friendly, or even attraction. It's often about power. Enjoy yourself. But just...
I agree with Wendy, There may be alot more that's right with you than wrong. However, you sound so confused and filled with angst over not being able to decide, much less even make a move, that a...
There's a bit of a difference between having a sense of entitlement and asking to be treated respectfully and with a minimum amount of decency. A sense of entitlement is generally cultivated, or...
It does sound a bit strange. no forced entry, stuff that's not worth much to a burglar all gone...Did you at least report it to the owner of the facility? Does the place have surveillance cameras?...