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Again you have me with your words.... or in lame man's terms...I do not understand

Sorry Theresa. ..I'm not sure we are on the same page. The decision on the beach thing happened 20years ago...4 years BEFORE my husband and I even met.... so when we met and he decided to ask me to...

Funny enough.... we have a 3y old...well..in fact all our children did the following. ... When they are faced with a choice...for instance a piece of chocolate or a helping of ice cream for desert.....

Cheryl, I must say, that is totally unacceptable. You will find those kind of double standards in any gender, and they are absurd.

I don't believe in the double standard thing. If my hudband would...

That is exactly what I thought....
It is one of the most common things for a crossdresser to do..... push the boundaries, knowing all the way that she would not approve, and then manage to look...

Isha, as usual your post makes a lot of sense.
Maybe my post should have been divided into several PM or visitor messages, since I basically reacted on the posts that other members made. I don't...

Aaaaah. Sometimes-miss. I see you are also wise.

:heehee:

I am afraid this post will put me on the naughty chair, but really.... do you guys hear yourselves???


Now that is selfish, isn't it. As one of my favourites (Emi) always says, you are foremost...

Write her a letter, give it to her at the end of a nice, relaxing evening.
In the letter you can explain everything clearly without getting all emotional, and she can read it in her own time. The...

Hi
What Jenny said is true. If he does the forms and padding etc, I prefer to see him fully dressed and 'transformed', so that I can convince myself it is not my husband.

BUT...
I have the...

Maybe I can just clarify something, since I see a lot of you responded with something like set boundaries that will be revisited etc. And in principle I agree, but... but...

I still have as point...

Hi
This thread was not intended to hurt my husband or to make him out as always wanting to shift boundaries.
I merely used incidents in our relationship to explain my thoughts, after I read some...

Thank you all for such great replies.


I guess I want to reitterate that communication is key, and that in my opinion it is cruel to marry someone without telling them about your CDing.
:shutup:

I must admit, my dearest model T, that I start to enjoy some parts of having a CD husband.... a woman's got to do what a woman's got to do :heehee:

And afterall.... I can't handle it to NOT be the...

Hi Isha
We talk very often about it to gain a better understanding about it and our feelings wrt it. I suppose the boundary talk is normally something where he is saying what he would want or that...

Hi

I just want to know why is this thing always progressing.... always shifting boundaries?*What was good a couple of months ago is not good enough any more.
For instance... I never allowed my...

PaulaQ, thank you too for your explanation. Although I still am not planning on becoming supportive, I definitely try to become less judgemental and irritated by it. And as Tink saud, it is really...

Thank you, Teresa, for you calm answer after my rant.
Im not at a good place currently, feeling some resentment.

Just to show that I feel for you, here is a hug. :hugs:

Maybe Im going off the road here, but I was just wondering..... and Im specifically talking to the men who knew and still got married, hiding it from their wives (those who developed or realised it...

Luckily for some of you, those closest to you do hear you, some of them listen or experience it quite often. Actions sometimes speak louder than words.
But I know you didnt write this out of your...

The same goes for the SOs of CDs that are not out to the world. It feels like we have two relationships going.... the marriage between L an J, and the 'platonic friendship' between Lidea and Jenny....

I realised that this was not the intention of this thread, but it was/is still my gg opinion. Didnt mean to offend anyone though.
Also like to be appreciated, but not copied by my husband... :doh:

Hi Lexi
My first thought was... awwww, so sweet.
But then it struck me.....

I love pasta.... I mean, really really love it, especially something with lots of parmesan cheese, and mushrooms, and...

Sorry to say, but that is definitely a selfish view. How sad would the world be if everybody wanted to spend 100% of their time pleasing themselves only.... and ironically enough.... it is soooo not...

Wow wow wow.
All I can say to this is 'hats off to you'
Such nice and decent words.