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Jean -

Before I found this place, I thought I was a complete anomaly. Having spent weeks reading the forum archived (and seeing the sheer volume of "help, I have lost my mind" type posts), I now...

Alice - So very true.

Mickell/Nicolle -

I have been wearing my wife clothing, off and on, for more than 20 years, without her knowledge. The urge to dress normally coincided with being...

No, she does not know. I swim and bike a lot, which is pretty easy "cover" for shaving, but I also have especially hairy legs. I recently did laser on back hair, which I love, so the conversation...

This past weekend, I had perhaps the most "golden" opportunity of my life to explore crossdressing, with my wife and family out of town for four days. I had the entire house to myself, for several...

About 15 years ago, I quit an everyday/all-the-time tobacco addiction. In the weeks and months that followed, I would sometimes have "quit dreams," where I dreamed about using tobacco. Sometimes,...

I never even thought of myself as a “crossdresser” until I found this website a couple of weeks ago. I thought of myself as a pervert with a serious mental and emotional problem, which I wanted...

I think the secrecy is like kerosene ... it greatly intensifies whatever guilt or shame or disappointment we are feeling about "X" ... whether that is crossdressing, sexuality, or something else.

Just adding another resource, from a favorite blog, addressing the same topic in a current article ... http://zenhabits.net

Self-acceptance is a struggle for me, in any context (not just CD). I...

Isha -

Thank you for this post. The last 3-4 weeks have been brutal for me, mentally and emotionally, as I undertake this exact process, and it was only after my meltdown at the end of last week...

This morning, I woke up early. It was brisk, maybe high-20’s, but the skies were generally clear. I laced up my running shoes, grabbed my iPod, and hit the road. The cold air filled my lungs and...

Wow ... really. I posted less than two hours ago, and it feels like a platoon came to my aid in a moments notice. Thank you so much.

I just took my wife to dinner, still nothing about this, but...

Quick follow-up and details, other examples ...

* I had a business meeting yesterday afternoon. On the way back to my office, I stopped into Payless to check the sizing and price on heels and...

One half of me is fighting, with every ounce of my being, to not be here, to not be in this forum, to not be thinking about these issues. I wake up in the morning, imploring myself to stay focused...