Delila,
There was a time when I looked at others on this site who were going out into the public, who were living their true selves and thinking wow I wish that I had their courage but I will...
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Delila,
There was a time when I looked at others on this site who were going out into the public, who were living their true selves and thinking wow I wish that I had their courage but I will...
Well since I live on my own, only have female clothing now and am out to just about everyone, I do not find that there is ever a time that I do not want to dress as the gender that I feel I am.
Wishing ill upon another is no better than what he said. Hate begets hate. We need to lead by example, take the high road, look for, appreciate and applaud the good the good acts of others, encourage...
For me, being dressed and socializing dressed en femme is the only time I feel at peace in my skin, I am never comfortable dressed en homme. It is not about being female because I have no idea how to...
Yes we are different even in the respect that I am a cross dresser who dresses like a woman most of the time, wants to express as a woman most of the time but does not want to transition...
Actually it might be quite enjoyable going and being part of a group, I have tried being part of two different women's groups where I live and it has taken me to whole new levels in my experience of...
I agree with watch and learn. I hosted a pot luck lunch yesterday for a group of women in a local woman's friendship group that I belong to and we had a great time. What is really interesting is that...
What I have learned over the past few years when being out in the public (including work) is that most people don't notice or don't care about these things. I think that the world we live in, at...
I give my GF a great deal of credit. I was very clear up front who I am and where my life is possibly heading and she has been very accepting of me and my lifestyle. She has also been clear that if I...
Good question Cynthia. I wear t-shirts (most days) and pants, but they are all womens' styles and colours. I wear ear rings most days. My hair is long and I tie it back. I wear women's doc martin's...
This is an update for any who are following my progress. I have been taking many steps to help me answer the question of how I want to live my life. I have been out of my 25 year relationship now...
My goal is actually quite simple, I just want to be myself, I want to move towards expressing myself just as I feel that I am inside,no more, no less. I get closer and closer to that each day.
Because when I present to the public dressed femme I am presenting my most authentic self. When I am dressed in male mode that is when I am truly cross dressing.
Kathi,
It is a truly amazing story. It sounds like you are, albeit discretely, transmitting a signal that others in the world are detecting. There is clearly no need for masks anymore. They sense...
I want to thank all of you girls for your wonderful words. In the past the scary steps were talking to my ex about this and later getting out in to public. As I have pushed the envelope and tried...
What you say makes great sense.
As mentioned in some earlier posts I decided to lose weight and so I joined a weight loss group and to date I have dropped 30 lbs. It has gone a long way to helping me look better when dressed femme,...
I told my doctor, who knew myself and my ex, that a large reason for the breakup with my ex was due to my cross dressing and I also asked if he could refer me for further gender counseling. He was...
I agree that you need to be honest, you need to come out, you need to be courageous about who you are, you need to discuss it openly, you need to work through this together and find a pace that works...
All of my clothes now are female. So technically speaking I am 7/24, however, at work I configure in a more male mode (though it is a very femme male mode) and when at home I always dress femme. I am...
Arghhh! Not another intolerance thread...I just cannot tolerate them ;)
In my case, one day when my girlfriend and I were coming home to her house (I was in femme mode) we were surprised by her teenage son showing up at the same time. The cat was out of the bag,...
Oye-yoy-yoy ... Eluuzion, we don't need a third person, it is already complicated enough with two...Boris and Doris ;)
Well if you feel that explaining it the right way will help her then perhaps getting her to share books, articles and local cross dresser meetings might be a place to start. She cannot wrap her mind...
Zoe,
Trust me that I do understand that it hurts her and it is very difficult to hurt ones whom you love, however, there will be much emotional pain on both sides as you go through this process....