I cannot speak for others, nor can I counsel others on how to handle their relationships. But, for me, I have never kept anything from my wife other than my crossdressing. After almost 30 years of...
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I cannot speak for others, nor can I counsel others on how to handle their relationships. But, for me, I have never kept anything from my wife other than my crossdressing. After almost 30 years of...
"Then last night we were talking about how much to tip the lady who waxes us."
Sounds to me like you are already sharing feminine experiences.
There's an acronym that is used by sociologists, NIMBY, meaning Not In My Back Yard. It's OK to do build that toxic waste dump in the next county, but not in my town. A similar acronym for us would...
Yes, if I were honest with self, I would have to say that I do care what the neighbors think. However, I'm finding that, as I grow older, my need to express myself and my gender fluidity is starting...
I think Tammy is on the right track. I have not had any urge or need to purge since I accepted that this is part of who I am, that I was created this way for a purpose. Shortly after that I came...
I've been going out for about 5 years, now, and I've learned a couple of things. First, the fear of being "clocked" is blown way out of proportion. At any given time, about 80% of the people in a...
Same with me, I'm not nearly as concerned with "being caught" as I was when I was younger. But for me, I think that it's mostly because I'm out to my wife and kids now. I'm also out to my employer,...
Hi Katy,
I have to agree with Michelle and Blue. I don't shop on-line. I even got so fed up with the way that clothes did not fit me properly that I learned to sew my own clothes.
But, more...
I've had 3 similar incidents, but 2 of them were the other side of the coin. The first, I was running a quick errand, wearing a denim skirt, flower print top, pink flipflops, but no makeup or...
I did not come out to my wife until we had been married for over 29 years(about eight years ago), and all of our kids, except one, were out of the house. We decided then that we would not tell the...
I rarely, if ever, pass. While, at times I try to look as feminine as possible, I don't necessarily try to pass. If, when someone does a double take, they have to ask themselves, "Is that a man or...
Amy,
It was great to meet your young lady Saturday. She seems like a real sweety. Hopefully we'll be seeing much more of both of you.
I have to agree with the "National Enquirer" sounding subject title. I am assiciated with 2 support groups, both of which have the primary function of support, and both recognize that part of that...
My wife and I enjoy our girls outings. But, unless we are attending a support group meeting, we generally go to mainstream places. Some of our favorite places are the theatre, especially musicals. ...
I can't say that I'm into vintage clothing, but there are some "vintage" styles which are classic and never go out of style. A couple of years ago I got tired of buying clothes that fit my male...
I'm assuming that this was on the Ohio Turnpike. These rest areas are not like on most interstates. Not only are they clean and well maintaned, but even in the wee hours there are usually at least...
Not to long after I came out to my wife we made love while I was en femme, but I found myself very uncomfortable, out of balance, and I did not enjoy it at all. I'm pretty sure that she did not,...
The last time I flew, I presented "in between" genders. I was in girl jeans, a woman's polo top, some cute flats, and I had my forms in my bra. However, I had no makeup, and my beard shadow was...
We have 5 kids, current ages 21 to 35. They all know. My wife and I innitially had decided not to tell them, but then one day about 5 years ago our then 21 year old son came home unexpectedly while...
I am most comfortable being in the middle. Sometimes I feel more masculine, other times more feminine, but mostly in the middle.
I know that I don't pass, and I don't realy try to pass. I don't dress for others, or for the comfort of others. I dress for myself and for my own comfort. There are times that I try to look my...
The last pair of men's jeans that I bought, 4 or 5 years ago were 36/30, and they were tight in the butt and loose in the waist. About the same time I got some women's 12 regular women's jeans that...
I normally run in women's short running shorts, or capris or leggins when it's gets colder, and women's t-shirt or tanktop with a good sports bra and my forms. Even with a close shave, I still have...
Like Bree, I just wear a regular bra, no glue. Generally I have no problems, although when I run, wearing a good athletic bra, they sometimes slide slightly, but not too often, and not too much.
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May I suggest that, before you make any changes to your appearence, you talk them over with your wife? Before I shaved my mustache, my legs, and my chest, I talked it over with my wife. Her initial...