I did all of my crossdressed dating back before the whole craigslist era, so I can't speak to that-- there were chatrooms, but I never really got into that. In NYC there was never a shortage of...
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I did all of my crossdressed dating back before the whole craigslist era, so I can't speak to that-- there were chatrooms, but I never really got into that. In NYC there was never a shortage of...
I disagree-- this isn't sexual tension with a coworker, or flirting with a woman in a bar, cybering is explicit sexual chat normally accompanied or leading to self gratification. It isn't "sex" in...
I think you're right, but I do wonder if some of the suggestions above-- onsite free makeovers and the like-- and proper framing and promotion of the event couldn't make it the kind of thing where...
Thanks for the (overwhelmingly "no") responses and the insightful comments.
Certainly most Americans who are used to freedom wouldn't want to live in the most extreme Muslim countries as males,...
So it all boils down to: The only way it's not cheating would be if you had clearly established boundaries in your relationship that are somewhat non-traditional, in which case you'd know already and...
Here is a provacative theoratical question for the members here who identify as female and wish they were born as girls:
If you could wake up tomorrow morning as a genetic woman, with exactly the...
I would make every effort to attend, and probably could, but I also agree that a "shoulder season" date might be better... dripping sweat and crossdressing don't go well together... and spring or...
Good post, the one thing I'm unclear on is what you mean by "out" in this context? The two ways I would normally expect to see that term used would be to divulge knowledge of someone's crossdressing...
There have been some good responses, but I think it comes down to what the parameters of the particular relationship are. I agree that most spouses in most situations would consider it cheating, but...
I really, really doubt it's a gag. Too random that you might go into his toolbox, rather than your own, to find a tool. He probably just got sloppy and didn't protect his stash well enough.
I see...
Not to the degree I did when I was younger and, I must say, WAY hotter, but still quite a bit.
When I look in the mirror and don't get turned on by the girl looking back, that's the day I'll hang...
There's truth to both sides, but the fact that the issue is CDing and is being discussed on a site with a preponderence of CDs is going to skew things.
If the unapproved activity-- and I'll equate...
Back when I was dressing publicly and having experiences with men, there was an older guy-- a married guy-- who I had an ongoing thing with... whatever he was up to behind his wife's back (and it was...
I think there is another aspect to this: Some women may have sexual attraction to other women, but they don't want their husband to be an imitation of that, from both ends-- a crossdresser is not a...
Great point. You might try asking her a leading series of questions to walk her through the logic (or lack thereof) of her prejudices. Often people are unthinkingly bigoted until they're actually...
I did read up on autogynephilia, that puts a new perspective on a lot of my dressing, the thoughts that occur when I did, and some of the things I've done when dressed, both in private and out and...
I'm happily married now and would never cheat on my wife, but in my younger, wilder days when I used to go out dressed in NYC I had encounters with men, other CDs, and GGs. Not all my adventures were...
Back in my younger days I did plenty of wild things, but the wildest involved two gorgeous asian crossdressers and myself. Won't go into details except to say that we got kicked out of our first cab...
It would be very easy for me to say go ahead and do it, but honestly depending on your personality, the way you dress in boy mode, your circle and other similar factors, it easily could be a giveaway...
Wow, these posts bring back SO many memories... never caught red handed, but had no end of close calls... many was the time I dashed into my room, or the bathroom, or the attic to hastily change or...
Of course, everyone has opinions on things, likes and dislikes. What bothers me is people who say this or that is "wrong", or think men who wear women's clothing for different reasons than they wear...
Typically when I went out in NYC I would occasionally get a longer-than-normal stare, but no comments-- CDs are common enough in NYC, at least in the neighborhoods I went out in, and few people in...
It never ceases to amaze me how such a significant segment of a population like CDs, who face discrimination, misunderstanding, prejudice, and generalized dislike-- can turn around and dish the same...
In a hyper-masculinized environment like the military-- especially on manouvres-- one would only be making matters worse for oneself by trying to take any sort of stand against lewd or crude chatter....
Have you ever been with other (non CD) guys in a golf store, or a gun store, or a hardware store with an extensive power tool department? You will see shopping (and not necessarily buying) that would...