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I understand the point of the thread: When the roles were reversed Devorah had an uneasy reaction to the gender switch her wife displayed and Tinkerbell wondered why more CDs don't understand a...

I don't think it is the case that CDs don't understand that heterosexual woman have an attraction to masculinity. Nor do I think we don't understand why CDing makes some women uncomfortable. Not only...

If you share with your children or CD in public you should strongly consider sharing with other important people in your life. Imagine how they would feel if they discovered via a third party and had...

When my wife and I decided that we were no longer comfortable hiding this aspect of my my personality from the world we sat down with our children, ages 6, 7, and 16, and invited their input. Each of...

Freak (noun): any abnormal phenomenon or product or unusual object; anomaly; aberration.

Well, according to the dictionary I would say: Yes, we are freaks. So what? By that definition a whole lot...

Sometimes I feel like the weirdest crossdresser on earth. I prefer skirts over dresses because they are more versatile from a mix/match perspective, but I love women's jeans and slacks as well. I...

It all depends on the individual. In my case we told our children at the same time - sons 7 and 16 yo and daughter 8 yo. All were very accepting immediately, but ultimately my daughter became the...

Let's see...I started around age 7 or 8. Over the years I developed a love/hate relationship with CDing. If I'm honest, deep down I never really wanted it to go away, but I found myself fighting it...

What a lovely story and what a lovely relationship you two have. The outing may have been short, but it sounds like a perfect first night out. I hope there are many more to come.

Every time a neighbor thread pops up I'm left scratching my head over why strangers who live in close proximity to us are granted such power over our lives. Why do we assume the reaction will be...

Yep. That's a pretty good representation of my life, and I suspect many others as well. The problem lies with the gap between discovery/hiding and acceptance/comfort zone.

When I discovered my...

Honestly, finally being comfortable in my own skin is the most exhilarating feeling I can imagine.

This is instantly one of my all-time favorite threads. Many great points have been made and I agree that we tend to overlook the fact that it took many years for society to move to the point where it...

I suppose it depends on each individual's circumstances, doesn't it? I don't have to choose one over another because my family and friends accept me as I am and all parties are comfortable with where...

Kimberly Ann, you make excellent points. Though it is perhaps understandable why so many of us choose to hide this side of ourselves from our mates, it is no less unfortunate. In my case I didn't...

That made me laugh!

Yes! That's it. This thing we do is a small part of our greater whole. I am not two personalities - one female and one male - I simply am.

What makes a behavior male or female? I do most of the...

Congratulations and thank you for sharing such an uplifting story. It is great to hear your relationship is back on track and that you are exploring together!

I couldn't ask for a more supportive wife. She understands this is an innate part of me and loves me despite my dual nature. We go out as "girlfriends" a couple of times a week and have a good time....

Lilly,

I find Las Vegas to be a great place to be TG. A few years ago there were some issues with CDs in women's restrooms. These incidents led to a re-examination and some specific TG-friendly...

Lily,

I believe the foundation of happiness is self-acceptance. If you are happy with your presentation that is all that matters. After all, who are we doing this for?

Wow. What a great story and a testament to your character and the wonderful life you have built. Enjoy and thank you for sharing!

Athena, my wife said essentially the same thing 20+ years ago. Her comment made me realize that I really didn't have an internal conflict at all. The truth was and is that I would prefer to feminize...

Welcome Della and congratulations on your first steps out. I think you'll find this to be a warm, welcoming place.

Your question is an excellent one and I look forward to the responses. I'm...

My wife and I are the same size so we have a shared wardrobe. My wife HATES to shop, particularly the part where she has to try things on. So, she picks out pants and I try them on for her. She's out...