I do regret purging yes, as with others here I got rid of some amazing stuff however I also recognise that I HAD to purge and go through all the association pain and strife to get to where I am and...
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I do regret purging yes, as with others here I got rid of some amazing stuff however I also recognise that I HAD to purge and go through all the association pain and strife to get to where I am and...
Hi shelly,
I'm in a very similar position and agree it does feel better, also it'll help you both in the long run in terms of understanding each other, I'm lucky to have such a lovely brave woman...
Hi guiseppina,
I'm fully aware of therapists rules and no ones judging anyone here, my SO is just very private and doesn't want to air all this even to a qualified and licensed therapist.
Abby
So...
We booked to see a therapist/counsellor near to us and that was all that was said until last night when my SO asked out of the blue whether we actually needed to see the lady at all as she...
Hi all,
Thanks for the replies and yet again great advice and perspective. I've now started to see this as a good thing for us as she's now telling me stuff that by the sounds of it she wouldn't...
Hi all,
I'm posting this to share some experience as to how a SO can react when told and how not to go about it from the CD persons point of view like I did.
You may have read in another post...
Thanks everyone for the input,
This is precisely what I'm trying to aim for here, a situation where I do what I do and she sees nor hears anything about it, it's the best compromise here in what...
I guess I felt at the time I couldn't tell her and was looking for a surrogate thing to ease the urges, I hoped it would take them away and be a kind of outlet I suppose, it was also advice given to...
Hmmm, I think if she came home to me dressed like that she'd flip out big time before I could even say the words 'shall we watch a movie' and I'd be sleeping in the spare room - if I even had a...
Hi all,
Thank you all so very much for your input, it's clear that many paths have been travelled by you all and the amount of experience speaks for itself.
I completely agree with what's been...
I was always fascinated by women's boots as far back as I can remember, my mom had a pair of leather 70's black knee high boots with platform heels that I'd be allowed to wear during playtime, that...
Totally get that, I doubt very much that she's ever encountered this before anywhere so all a bit new to her, I tried the DADT thing before and going behind a SO's back so to speak really my gnawed...
Hi all.
I did try to post this before but managed to drop it into the introductions, totally not what I wanted to do but still did, apologies to nigella for this, it won't happen again 😳
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