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Now is the time! Wildaboutheels, if you are 5' 4", you should have a GREAT time with heels! I'm 5' 10", and considered tall, especially for a Chinese girl! I always have to go for the shorter heels...

I agree...go ahead and buy your own!!!

As it is coming up on Summer here in the States, I'd recommend either microfiber or cotton (at least cotton crotch) panties instead of the satin or nylon...

I agree with Julia...dressing this way is the "fetishistic" part of crossdressing that many of us (myself included) began crossdressing. Some of us, perhaps most of us, "grow up"...that is, progress...

Lorileah!

Dear, why don't you try wearing a nice pair of jeans or slacks when you go out next time? You won't have to fight with your skirt when shooting pool or learning to dance!

And RELAX...

Annabelle:
Have you looked around online to find a CD/TV/TS/TG get-together relatively nearby for you? I spent a wonderful weekend at one of these here in the States (Provincetown, MA), and met...

Oh, Chari!!! Go for it girl!!! When exactly is the wedding? Don't forget PICTURES!!!! And the entire story, start to finish!

Oh, yeah, Kendra....her 'tummy' just might NOT be from a baby!!

You can usually (not always) tell if somebody is being sarcastic when giving you a compliment, but otherwise, just take it as...

yeah, you need to tell us the whole story! What did you try on, and what did you buy? Was your friend a GG or CD, or a bf?

Same here...I've never had any problem going to the ladie's when crossdressed...and, yes, I always sit to pee, even in the men's. Go to the facility that matches your presentation. Do your business...

I'm not one to *tease*. I like the nice, appropriately dressed, 'blend in' look. I know...BOOORRRING!!!

The other CDs used to ask me why I'd wear a pair of jeans (women's, naturally!) instead of...

Knee-highs are the way to go. Most shoe stores REQUIRE you to wear something on your feet, at least the giveaway 'footie' sox, to try on their shoes. If you are wearing knee-highs, and you find a...

Hey Keri, if your neighbors are relatively new to the neighborhood, they may have just assumed that you are just another house-mate living there!



Dominique, you have a VERY accepting and nice...

For me, it would have to be: Wig, beard cover under the rest of my makeup, something to cover the adam's apple like a scarf. I'd also add: walking, sitting, and generally moving properly.

Maybelle:
Go ahead, continue to wear panties!!! You'll love it, and will soon get used to it, and it will become "normal" for you!

I gave up men's underwear years ago, and never looked back. I...

oh, this brings up a question I've been wondering about for a while....if you DO spot ('read', 'clock') a sister in public, is it OK to tell her, and HOW do you do it?

I spotted a sister in the...

Katie, could you please post the URL of where the PALs can be found?

Well, I shave my underarms and face, pluck my eyebrows, legs and chest. Nice feeling smooth! It's almost warm enough to start wearing shorts outside...it's really a different feeling when the wind...

I use the restroom of the gender that I'm presenting as at that moment. I've been out female clothes shopping (crossdressed, with a GG friend), and used the women's dressing rooms to try on clothes,...

I think I've written this elsewhere, but it bears repeating...

Bras with adjusting buckles in FRONT show much less than those with buckles in BACK! Either find bras with buckles in front, or get...

Well, I was out shopping with my former boyfriend at a department store's basement level, found a pair of pants and wanted to try it on until I went into the (men's) fitting room...it was a wide open...

Jemima:
I went to psychotherapy for a few years with a therapist who specialized in TG people...what I learned was to INTEGRATE myself and become more a "Whole" person, not splitting the 'boy' side...

I would also recommend finding a local TV/TS group to attend and get used to being "out" in the world. They are good places to meet other CDs. Then you can arrange to go out to the movies or bars...

What Chrystal said about feminine body proportions is correct...women tend to have hips nearly as wide as their shoulders, and men have much wider shoulders than hips, so, as CDs we need to correct...

I agree with AllieSF...go out a few times to build up your confidence before the concert. Also, talk over what outfit you want to wear to the concert with your gf. You might want to go for...

I also say: "support group"...look online for a nationwide TG group that may have branches in all major (and some minor) cities. Contact them and find out the meeting times and places. Attending...