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Paula hit it on the head. I can tell you at my support group there are trans-men and they feel the need to be masculine/male as much as we feel the need to be feminine/female. We (MTF) have wigs and...

About 5 months ago I came out to my wife as a transgender, and posted about it here. What's the update and what happened since then? Why did I nearly disappear from this site? We'll I haven't, I...

Leslie - I totally *feel* this post, and there is a fairly strong and accepting community in San Diego for you to find friends! Go hang out at SRO a few evenings, take a walk and shop the thrifts and...

Hi Katey,

Love this thread, and your avatar shot. :)

For me, the draw to getting out and about is about experiencing life and seeing it through a new lens. The world is so much more...

Hi friends - a quick update 2 weeks later. And many thanks for both the advice and support.



You're right Nadine, and as other folks have pointed out, it's not really DADT. Not missing much,...

Scariest thing I've ever done, but I'm officially now in a DADT relationship. Yay (I think!)!

She said she didn't think it was really a big deal, and told me I could wear her underwear if I wanted...

The first few times I went to a TG club, I did with boy hair styled a little femme. It was OK, but once I bought a good wig and saw myself in the mirror - it made such a difference to how I looked...

I've found trying to keep you knees close together as you walk helps - almost brushing against each other with each step.

I think perhaps we have the opportunity to be more compassionate, whether or not all CD's take advantage of this is their own personal decision. I think those that are out and about in the vanilla...

I was at the Dr's office today (drab), wearing shorts, running shoes and sporting super smooth legs from epilating yesterday.

When I told her I only ran 2 miles today instead of my usual 5 since...

I'll echo San Diego for sure. Nearly 100% of my going "out" time has been spend there, and in particular Hillcrest which is very LGBT friendly. I've met a lot of friendly T-girls, gay guys and GGs...

Good for you! I want to join the ATL chapter but so far the dates have had conflicts for me.

What clubs did you go to? I'm in ATL for a while - usually get my femme time when I'm in San Diego...

Sounds like this might refer to me? <smile>

But yes where I frequent when I can is a TG & gay bar, where almost any day of the week you'll find a few TS and CD girls. Some, primarily the TS girls,...

Good for you Pamela! I've noticed when I spend extensive periods en femme that my drab look becomes much softer, bordering on androgynous other than clothing. Maybe it's the skin lotions, shaving...

I'd take that as one heck of a compliment that he took you for a woman! Oh, that other stuff sucks, but I'm sure they see the worst of our world daily, so the questions seem pretty normal. Honesty...

Hi Cassie,

This is a horrible idea, I absolutely recommend against going dressed. This won't be cross dressing it's going to be a mockery of femininity, surrounded by macho guys laughing all...

Well it's been quite an adventure this weekend. Many firsts, and lots of fun! Everything from a manicure to shopping to creepy guys, I think I experienced a lot of what it's like to be a woman. It's...

From fab to drab in 60 seconds... had to lose my manicure polish, such a bummer.

Have fun Donna! Don't overdress - remember it's still just travel, lots of walking, dragging bags to eternity, lots of bright lighting so blend as best you can. Every now and then I see GG's flying...

None whatsoever. But I do use the precheck line so its much easier then regular security lines, don't have to unpack your laptop, don't have to take off your shoes, etc. And I'm sure the security...

And... home. Tired, but I think I'll continue my adventure, my first full day en femme, with dinner then a game of pool at my favorite TG bar in San Diego!

Thanks girls for your support to get...

Just to keep the play by play going...

Exiting my first segment I had to get my suitcase from the overhead 2 seats behind. Two nice businessmen got it out of the overhead, amd commented how heavy...

Went through TSA precheck line, nothing eventful. Wendy's burger with a little line. Companion restroom. Just another travel day, I know I'm not fooling anyone, just enjoying being myself dressed how...

Short mall trip went just fine, new concealer and foundation from the cosmetics store. One or two kiosk guys called out to me "sir, sir come look", a confused look here or there, but the SA was very...

Wish me luck, just left the hotel! Headed to the mall, then to the airport.