Well, my guess, because it is one of those things we can change and as a crossdresser can be turned on and off. Since many aspects of us are masculine and some of those aspects are difficult or...
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Well, my guess, because it is one of those things we can change and as a crossdresser can be turned on and off. Since many aspects of us are masculine and some of those aspects are difficult or...
Chemistry. There are three major times in a persons life when their hormones make a big changes; birth, adolescence and mid life. Which one are you?
If you asked her why she was dressed like that, she would say "because I can". Hey more power to her and don't feel bad about finding it jarring. I've seen GG's on the beach in a bikini that got a...
I have had no problems in Japan. I wrote about it on this forum: ...yes I really think so...
Sounds like you handled yourself perfectly with the police. As far as anyone else goes, if you are not afraid for your safety then go out. If someone is offended that is their problem. If they ask...
People in the services industry (waiters, bar tenders, etc) see a ton of things from strange to odd. Trans people are one of the more normal things. I had spent some time talking to my waiters and...
That is what this condition does. It impacts relationships. It will change all relationships you reveal to and some that you don't reveal to. Some relationships may improve, some will get worse or...
That is caused by hormones.
For me, since being on HRT, I am less capable of "compartmentalizing" my thinking or emotions. My thinking is a lot more scattered and my emotions, oh god what can I...
Well said. I find now that I have been able to enjoy life at a whole new level; with new friends and with old. It seems the old self that was lost in the mists of recent events is starting to emerge...
Is it just me or does anyone else relate to the story and theme of Alias? Other than Jennifer Garner's wardrobe, what is it about Alias that is so appealing?
As I am watching the series again I...
I don't know. I kind of like this idea, it is definitely different. It is true, what we do is not fun, heck it is not what we do either it is what we are. But to introduce it in this way may go a...
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I suggest you do it sooner than later and be as honest as possible. My wife was ticked that I did not tell her when I started trying to figure it out and that left a bad taste in her mouth.
She...
I would add;
- do it as soon as you even suspect something, and
- never, ever ,ever, ever lie about any part of it, and
- if you have a chance to tell her/him, do it.
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"Why is this...
I give you an A- for lack of confidence. Don't doubt yourself the next time and you can earn the A.
Sounds feminine to me, but it also sounded very soft. You may have a hard time being heard in loud places, like a bar, club or train station.
A good test is to make a call to some store and ask...
I don't think I care too much about being 21, but I wouldn't mind looking it from time to time. I also don't want to live forever. It would be way too painful for one lifetime (well, two lifetimes in...
Kristen,
I wouldn't worry too much about what others say about your driving. The one thing I learned when managing the IT for several area PD's was that everyone driving on the road can be pulled...
Oh the excitement of the first times out. The adventurer in me misses those days in a way.
Congrats on your continued courage and enjoy it while you can Inge.
Oh How funny, I was just about to start a thread on this when I decided to search first.
I have a question, what name should I use. If I use my old name they may not let me in as my ID has been...
A gay friend once told me, if you never tried it, how do you know you don't like it? I looked at him with a blank stare for several minutes - good point!
My wife and I are discussing separation...
Oh! And if you are dressing light because you are leaving from a warm area, bring a sweater on the plane. You may also want to bring socks.
Don't worry about TSA or airport personnel, they have been informed and instructed to treat transgender people just like anyone else. Just relax and have fun with it nobody will bother you.
If you...
Telling is a choice for anyone, but for a pre-op transsexual it is almost impossible for it not to get out. So the choice is, do I want to control the getting out or not.
Personally and I can...
It is likely they won't. I have gone out with people I have known for years and still do not yet know about me looking quite feminine and other than a strange look or two, no words are spoken - not...