Thank you for this.
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Thank you for this.
AS a GG with a CDing SO, I think it's unlikely you'll find a woman interested in a CDer. I, as well as I believe most of the GG's on this forum support our SO's CDing because we support them. My SO...
Only within the last couple of years have I become aware of the "gender fluid" label. Trust me, I thought what the____ is that? My SO has expressed that they think of themself as transgender, but...
Shot of Jack with a beer chaser....we used to call it a Boilermaker.
Katey I found your answer interesting in that you can "control" this without the need to reveal. Trust and believe I think many SO's wish they could have remained blindly ignorant to the whole...
Long before I became involved with my now former, CDing SO, I was married to a man for 20 years, we had 2 great kids together, owned a home were active in the community even to my family seemed...
Lorileah very well said. Nice post....
I have googled all kinds of things about crossdressing, ultimately bringing me to this site in a quest for information on the subject. I have never had anything appear on my FB page in regard to...
My experience was an early but slow reveal. I was OK with it but after a few years when he began to accelerate and expand his dressing it got a little more complicated for me. Maybe he was in the...
My grandfather was 6'3" and all leg. He often sat with his legs crossed at the knee. I never gave it any thought, but I feel safe in assuming he was NOT a CDer. :battingeyelashes:
I have seen...
Adina
Where to begin....what I choose to wear each morning generally starts with !) what DOESN'T need to be ironed 2) am I in the mood for heels today? 3) what undergarments am I in the mood for...
Thank you Persephone! This GG enjoys her Gentleman Jack or Single Barrel neat, thank you very much! Like many, many other GG's I enjoy a cold beer or two as well, just depends on where I am and who...
Yes it is definitely both. At first the support was great, then I started reading threads that scared the bajeebers out of me for several weeks, especially because my SO's CDing was escalating. ...
So like many who have been "found out" I see this as a "happy accident". Much like those who were outed by friends or neighbors while running to the car, etc....this is one of those situations you...
I believe it was Ellen who, btw had just come out as a lesbian and was known for not dressing "girlie". The Press is responsible for making "will she or won't she weaar a dress" a big deal. I don't...
Well I can tell you I didn't know much about crossdressing, not because I think I'm always right (for a guy who professes to appreciate women so much he wants to dress like on - this sounds kinda...
I guess the difference is I never thought of the term as "disparaging". I always think of it as biker slang for "car".
From a GG perspective I agree with Tinkerbell. She picked up on something you think you have disguised. I think many CDers tend to over-exaggerate feminine mannerisms when they are en femme. ...
The fact that a person refers to an automobile as a "cage" reveals that person's equal antipathy toward auto drivers. Pot. Kettle....[/QUOTE]
Having spent many years around the motorcycle world I...
My guess is you took the "bitch" insult as a compliment because it validated your "passing". Too bad that in the GG world there is only one word that is more insulting and that is "see you en tee".
I agree with Jenniferathome....I think your delivery is the problem, in addition to timing. I get wanting to disclose early on, but you need to get to know the woman a bit, feel things out and ask...
This sums the whole thing up. Prior to being in a relationship with a CDer, I was pretty much as JessM describes. Yeah, CDers are pretty easy to spot - maybe on a doubletake, but yes we, the...
If you're talking about someone you are just dating and not in a committed relationship with I would be very wary. You may not know this person as well as you think and it could go very, very badly....
A GG tip for getting a bra on without all the twisting...put it around your waist with the hooks in the front. Fasten in the front, slide it around until the hooks are in the back then pull it up...
25%!!!! Wishful thinking at the very least... My guess is, at best .5% - 1%, and that includes female to male which is much more open and acceptable. I do buy for my SO, from plus size lingerie...