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Realtionships are overrated. Get happy with yourself. You do NOT need a GG to validate yourself. You don't need anybody. If, by chance, you find that GG that is cool with it fine, but don't hold...

I don't even try. Maybe I could in a crowded mall where everybody ignores everybody, but I don't try. I've progressed to a state of self, I don't even "dress", I just be who I am. I guess I'm not...

Karen ... I think dressing for some opens the closet door with the sex angle, and when the angle of the dangle goes down, wham shuts the door. The "dressers" claiming 10000% straight I don't...

I'm curious. For those attracted or fantasizing about men, are you OK with the great majority of admirers that like the "something extra" idea? Or is the extra off-limits? The off-limits pool is...

I ALWAYS keep my nails! Pulling them out would be really f#*(@!^ painful. Isn't that a common torture? What are you, some kind of silly? For I am NOT! :D

I don't know. Gay bars are so ..... gay! Go to Hooters. Give 'em hell baby!

Seriously, gay bars are OK. They'll ignore you. Go to bars frequented by TV's. Sony, Mitsubishi and the like. Go...

Just do it ... 'coz why would these people be on this forum?

I remember doing an Internet search about places, and found many in LA, a dearth in SJ. Perhaps try that?

I thought I'd make a post pertinent to CDing, rather than tongue in cheek.

Progessions. I remember long ago, just a few trying on of my Mother's clothes. Just passing. Never a thought for so...

I guess passing is not important, but acceptance is. If they say, that's a he, but she looks nice. That's good stuff. And it's even good stuff if one was to be outrageous in the makeup, like a...

I sure do wish to be smaller. I cannot do anything about height or the size of my feet or shoulders, but slimmer. It is a much greater drive to want femme slim than guy slim. It drives me, but Ms...

Very well said Tekla. I think "passing gold" is just being accepted. It matters not whether you think I'm female. I'm not. But do you think I'm .... I want to say beautiful ... but it's more I'm...

I think that the times you are worrying, are the times you are looking. Wondering, checking out everybody and reading any and all looks and gestures. I'm sure they are there all the time, but when...

Time for the chrysalis stage, awaiting the next sunny day to emerge the butterfly!

Poetic, yet sad, and hopefully only a parallel good time. I'm sure you'll have many sunny days with the family. ...

Wow! I think I learned something. I'm divorced twice, been there done that. Nothing at all to do with CDing, I never did it until recently. But the angst of some of these posts. My empathic...

I have no problem being ... what? shut up. I know Kohl's has a sale and that top is really cute but ... myself. No problem whatsoever.

I think I'd be banned if I listened to the voice.

This is so deep. Just what this site is all about!

Not true. He hid an integral part of herself. How long, I don't know, but he's now a very different person in her eyes. Why can't closeted and outed CD's accept that? Relationships are hard...

For me, it's all in the mind. I can be all decked out, or just a few things. Either way, i't my state of mind, am I Joanna or not? LIke I said, internal state of mind.

Yes, a gaff will do it. Or you could proudly display your CDism. Depends. Sometimes its gril, somtimes it's gruyl. Oh wow, just coined a new term ... gruyl. I'm so smart ... or goofy ... depends...

You a HO!:love: :D

Now this is what it's all about .... I LOVE IT!

Ohh Al! (wiggle, wiggle, tight tights)

Not even Balti-Wind-Ho's??????? I'm devastated!