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I am an ex wife. I was married to a transgendered person for 25 years. We raised 7 wonderful children together. We were pretty good parents. I do believe we loved each other.

I found out about...

to be kinder, compassionate and intollerant of intollarance. Thank God, NONE of my girls would have an issue with a TG person using the stall next to them....and their acceptance changes others a...

our marriage was more than a *fart*. We BOTH worked to try to make it work. For many reasons we BOTH failed to make it work. Neither one of us is a *bad* person. Neither one of us is a bigot.Yes, it...

could not stay married.

I am not a racist, a homophope or a bigot. Carin knows this. So do my children and friends.

Yes, I was very young when I married. I was open minded, fairly well...

Carin and I are in the middle of a divorce. 25 years of marriage, seven wonderful children, including two with special needs.

It would be foolish of me to make any judgements about either you or...

ultimations seem to be about control. Control is about fear. Fear about the unknown, fear about one self, fear about change, just about fear.

Sometimes one person or both have to look at the fear...

I am a GG and a super girly girl and I adore football (and rugby!). I am really hoping the Cardinals beat those Steelers (sorry Karren!).

All three of my big boys played football from when they...

Remember, You're entitled to happiness too!!!!


That is from your signature. And yes you do deserve to be happy as does your wife.

When I woke up on August 3rd of 2008 I realized that Carin...

I hope your wife is doing well. Should she or you need to talk just PM me.



Louise.

within most marriages.

I was certainly not able to compromise within my own marriage. It was all about control. I needed to control my husband, what he wore, when he wore it, how long his hair...

we have seven chidren, ranging in age from 22 down to 14. All of them accept thier father as a transgendered person. And all their close friends and partners do too.

As their mother I am very...

*threatening*??? That line is getting sooo old. GGs are NOT threatened by how CDs/TS/ TGs dress or make themselves look *pretty*, lol.

and have some thoughts.


I do believe the reality is that some women feel that men who present themselves in a feminine or female way in fact do *mock* women. That of course is not the intent of...

but this thread hit some sore points with me. I gained a tremendous amount of weight in my thirties. I would have been devastated if my husband had worn the clothes that did not fit me anymore....

but here I am and your post is the first and only post I have read.

Yes, sweetheart, your gaurdian angel is nudging you in exactly the right direction! You are more serene and so much more at...

Thank you for putting into words what I have been thinking.

Louise.

factor in seven kids, four in college and while we are rich with our family we don't have to much money to spend. And we live in Silicon Valley one of the most expensive areas in the country.

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I do.


Louise.

I have shared this with both my sons and daughters so that they can be more enlightened.


Louise.

and I hope I have taught my sons better than to only look at females to *check them out*.



Louise.

when I was seventeen. Being a female is dangerous. Be CAREFUL!


Louise.

for sharing your story. Communication is really the key to making any of this work. Sometimes we forget to hear the other person's POV. Both sides do this. Again thank you!


Louise.

I had to go back 29 years and remember what attracted me to my DH. I had lots of choices back then. Plenty of young and even older men who were interested in me, lol. I met my DH at 15, he was 22....

I thought everything my CDer said at the beginning was *the truth* and it was for then. Things changed as the years went on. I of course felt *betrayed*. Now I know that he was telling me the truth...

Tree, you said so so well. It's about what you thought you knew. And now what you know is different. The person who CDs is the same person but is different to you because now you *know*. I miss...