what would capture it?? What does "just not a male thing to do" mean to you? Just wondering.
Why is it not a male thing to do?
Afraid of giving up masculinity is my best guess..
that fear...
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what would capture it?? What does "just not a male thing to do" mean to you? Just wondering.
Why is it not a male thing to do?
Afraid of giving up masculinity is my best guess..
that fear...
Really ??
Exactly how many post op regrets and de[transitions have you seen in your time??
FWIW
I know personally of none...and I know close to 200 people that transitioned or plan to.......
If you ever figure out why, let me know.
Its interesting to say "need to pass"....its less constructive than saying "need to present as a woman" or "need to present as myself"... expressing ...
If CD's try to coo opt the #metoo movement there will be a huge amount of blowback....like it or not, its primarily a womens movement, a long time coming..
surely men have been unfairly...
Its gender dysphoria. TG and TS people suffer it, and the way to fight it is to express that side of you that reduces the distress.
Compartmentalizing and other coping skills can hope, but in...
overall...
its not about you..
its about the other person..
thinking and prioritizing about what the other person may feel is subtly different than the golden rule, which is a very good rule...
Regardless of whether some people think its ok, its not ok.
you outed her, and walked away.
you did it for your own purposes, not her's. and btw its her, not "her"
regardless of her man...
I transitioned in 2009...
sneezing and coughing still sucks..
like a big ole dog bark...no matter how i try
moved this section because.....................
not to be double glib, but that's called being bisexual
Bisexuals are bisexuals..
i read that comment by sara and thought "dont be so hard on yourself sara"...
the label matters for communication.... after all if you are in your power suit with wingtips and a crewcut, saying...
saying you are a male lesbian means you are a male that fantasizes about being a woman having sex with a woman...
that's pretty much it. what else could it possibly be??
nothing wrong with...
Im with Sara Jessica..
Male lesbian???
The appropriate response to that is ...ummmm No.
its a classic appropriation....
Being a Male lesbian is a fantasy. Nothing more. There is no such...
Now this is a cliche...
a sexist and arrogant one..
the CD dresses better than real woman trope is a laughable fantasy...
After transition, i cared about the labels and words...as life came at me, those words lost meaning, woman sounds fine to me.....i dont mind transsexual woman either...
that is what separates...
Jamie
I agree with you
as a transsexual i did find some cliches and tropes especially in the earlier parts...but its just a show
the biggest cliche i found was the women's retreat..and it...