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Compromise, communication, honesty and trust. I feel like I am trying to compromise the best I can, so that I am not completely dismissing and ignoring how I feel, but also taking his feelings and...

My input as a GG is that regardless of the cross dressing, any relationship is give and take. You have to communicate and compromise. Once one person is no longer willing to compromise, the...

I never said I am being blamed. My point was that I want to fully support him because I love him, but it's also hard to do that 100% when I feel like supporting him is also going to mean the end of...

This is something that I'm hoping my husband can sort out in therapy. Either he's not articulating his feelings to me very well, or I really feel more and more that he is not TG like he's thinking....

I think most people say at least 1-2 years for a relationship before considering marriage. Hell, so many people get married before living together or even having sex, so then their marriage fails...

Oh, totally. I know. It's going to take time. I'm just yearning for the physical affection and the closeness, I miss it. I miss us. So it's more like, how long can I go on without any physical...

Hey, even as a GG, I have my issues and questions! In high school I thought I was bi because I felt myself attracted to females. I have always found more feminine and slender guys attractive (big...

And this is what I fear. That he's going to realize the grass isn't always greener on the other side. I know cross dressing is a stress relief and makes you feel good, but I just wonder how much of...

This is what I'm hoping the outcome will be for me and my husband. I want to find some sort of middle ground. I havealways supported his cross dressing from the very beginning. But if he were to...

Funny, I just had to chuckle at reading that and then reading this in your signature:

No, his gender issues and/or cross dressing had absolutely nothing to do with him questioning to marry me. It was all about his family and the thought of losing his parents (his father was still...

The small difference between me and your ex-wife is that I've already seen him dressed. Well, dressed as a woman in a man's body. The difference is, eventually the clothes, wig and makeup eventually...

Pretty much. I mean this all started with the loss of interest in sex issue, but everything else unraveled from there. Even if it was just the lack of sex issue, I still wouldn't skip town...

He's already started seeing a sex therapist that also specializes in gender issues. He said he likes him so far, though he's only seen him once. His next appointment with him is next week. However,...

In case there's confusion about his sexuality, he has said over and over that he is not attracted to men and has no interest in dating or having sex with men. Though I did read one instance online of...

I don't know, maybe. That's interesting. The strange thing with him is, he's still very much "manly" when he dresses up. I remember times where I told him he shouldn't sit like a "man" when he's in a...

The waiting is the worst. :( I'm very much a planner, so having everything open and uncertain is very difficult for me. Last year I had to wait for him to make a decision, he was either going to go...

I'm not sure what came first though, the loss of interest in sex or the thoughts of transitioning. He said they seemed to happen together. So it's one of the "chicken or the egg" situations. And if...

First of all, I'm not a cross dresser, my husband is. He may even frequent this forum, I'm not sure. I know he belongs to cross dresser communities online, I'm just not sure how many or where they...