I thought it would be interesting to see how many out there in this forum are either full time cross dressers or are planning to go full time at some point in the future.
I know that many only dress periodically or in secret (as I once did), however, others have evolved to a new level. In some cases that evolution takes you to a place where you dress full time femme (without transitioning), in other cases it is full transitioning through SRS and FFS.
At this stage in my life I dress most of the time outside of work and I am pondering, because I have been so successful in going out in public en femme, the possibility of coming out at work and going full time femme without surgery or hormones. I am not yet sure how realistic that is, however, I know that I feel most at ease with myself when femme and yet I have no deep seated need to change my male biology. So in effect I want to present as a woman but remain a male. I know that this is an odd combination and it seems from what I can tell that few go this route.
I decided that it might be worth asking about the experiences of those who have successfully gone down this path and to hear from those who are planning to go this route.
For myself I try as much as possible to live femme to see if this is something that I can live with all the time, to see if the need wears off. So far I have been doing this for over a year and it has yet to become a passing phase. It feels very natural for me to be in this state. I have to continue to do this more and more so that if I finally do come out at work I will know that this is the right path for me. I still have some hurdles to get past and part of that is losing more weight and completing facial hair removal.
Anyway, this is the journey that I am on and I was curious to see if there are others out there doing the same thing.
Huggs
Melissa