Here is how I get my male dates to treat me. We agree on a few things before we go out. At the restaurant he opens the car door for me and then he must walk arm in arm with me to the door and then open it for me. He must seat me and I always let him order for me. I get him to say " my wife will have a glass of white wine" and the later "my wife will have a salad." Those words "my wife" always give me the shivers and so far the men have had no problem saying those words. I make sure the waiter sees my cheap but large wedding ring. I am in heaven while out on a date like this. Men will do about anything as long as they know they will get some sex in return. That is fine with me cause Ive come to enjoy being a mans wife, if just for a little while.