here is my two cents if it counts and has not already been said.
BE HONEST TELL HER THE TRUTH ABOUT EVERYTHING IN YOUR LIFE. I MEAN EVERYTHING she will respect you for it trust me. it goes with loving someone you must trust them and they must trust you Been married for close to Five years and it's been great. But I had not told her about Jessica and she thought I was Cheating cause she found some clothes laying around a room. she was shocked but got over it and has asked if the "jessica side would help around the house to keep up the house"
my two/three cents worth
jessica